All things marriage

People make efforts in the present time for what they visualize in the future.
In a relationship when they see only themselves making efforts, they stop doing it.
That can be the make or break moment.
If the other person take lead in that moment, the relationship will go some distance.
Thats how relationship is- not just man leading, not just woman following, its reversal of the two roles- one afyer the other.
Both want to take lead at a time- conflict.
Both want to follow at a time- waiting game.

Men, get a women you can afford

I’ve heard women say this on a few occasions but what does it actually. How are the more “expensive” women better than the more simple women that do not require much.

I know many successful men and non of them are interested in or have married “expensive” women. In fact it’s embarrassing to them to marry a woman who would not have married them if it wasn’t for their. wealth.

Furthermore, there’s an argument for women who are not “expensive” are more interested in love as this is what their happiness is derived from, not material possessions.

So if wealthy men are not interested in marrying “expensive” women and non wealthy man can’t afford to marry “expensive” woman who will marry these expensive women?

There is a particular moment in childhood when the question stops being what do you want to be and becomes what field do you want to work in

The change seems small it is not in that silent instant the child’s imagination begins to be shaped by a structure they do not yet understand but have already begun to inhabit.

School does not teach the child to think about work it teaches the child to prepare for it and preparing for something without understanding it is the most efficient way to perpetuate it without question

Think about that cycle that practically every middle class family reproduces in sincere good faith study hard to get into a good university graduate in the field the market values get a job with a contract benefits and stability buy a property commit income to installments advance in your career retire !

This script was repeated so many times across so many generations that it came to seem like the very definition of a life well lived the problem is not in the elements of the cycle the problem lies in the absense of a pause to ask weather this is what one desires !!!
Is this a life with meaning independent and real dignity !!!

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I feel like I don't deserve a soulmate because it's probably my destiny to not have a partner.

I am serious about marriage. I am divorced and single. I will always support and respect my wife. I am a simple person, not very educated and not a rich person. I am telling the truth, not a deceitful person. I work hard in Dubai and am from Pakistan.

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Society has taught millions of people to compete for a life that at its core no one asked them if they wanted

And the longer you remain in that race the harder it becomes to admit that you are running to arrive at exactly the same place

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