Shia Muslims

I just found something interesting about the Shia Sayed Marriage Culture between various different countries.

In Iran and Iraq the Sayeds allow their daughters to marry non-Sayed men.

Also every Grand Marajas in Iraq and Iran allowed it.

In Afghanistan, Pakistan, and Indian Shia Culture

The Sayeds do not allow their daughters to mary non-Sayed Shia men.

Being a Sayed you are in a high-caste system in the Asian Shia culture.

Apparently that is the reason why Shias are still a minority in the three Asian countries.

A very important fact to be highlighted. 😂

It is narrated from Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (peace be upon him):

"The student must discipline himself in his quest for knowledge and must neither become bored of his studies nor overestimate what he already knows."

Source: Ghurar Al-Hikam

روي عن الامام علي بن أبي طالب عليه السلام:

"عَلَى الْمُتَعَلِّمِ أَنْ يَدْأَبَ نَفْسَهُ فِي طَلَبِ الْعِلْمِ وَلَا يَمَلَّ مِنْ تَعَلُّمِهِ وَلَا يَسْتَكْثِرَ مَا عَلِمَ"

المصدر: غرر الحكم

Looking for someone who dreams of a different kind of life 🌿

A little about me first.

I’m 25 and currently running my own small call centre. I live independently and have been managing my own place and responsibilities separately from my parents. I value independence, family, loyalty and building something meaningful rather than simply following the usual path.

I’ve always felt that I’d eventually like to move away from the noise and rush of city life. One of my biggest dreams is to build an off-grid, self-sufficient home/farm surrounded by nature and animals.

I imagine a life where we can grow some of our own food, raise animals, spend more time outdoors and eventually raise our children in a peaceful environment with space to explore, learn and grow.

So I’m hoping to meet someone who has a similar dream herself.

Someone who genuinely wants to leave the conventional city lifestyle behind someday—not because she has to, but because she actually wants a simpler, more peaceful life closer to nature.

Someone who would enjoy:
🐕 Living around animals
🐐 Raising animals together
🌱 Growing our own food
🏡 Building our home and lifestyle together
🌿 Being close to nature
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Raising children with love, values and good upbringing

You don’t need to already know anything about farming or off-grid living. I’m much more interested in your mindset and whether this kind of future genuinely excites you.

I’m not looking for someone to simply follow my dream.

I’m hoping to find someone whose dream can become our dream.

If you’ve ever looked at city life and thought, “I don’t want to live like this forever,” maybe we already have something important in common.

Muzz is apparently more interested in making me buy the subscription rather than connect me to Syed circles.

Even looking at a profile twice needs a subscription. Maybe at some point in life I’ll make an app which is more focussed on getting the problem solved.

Do you all face this or is it just me?

I don’t need someone to understand every wound I carry. I just want someone who never gives me a reason to hide them.”

I was going to write something impressive here…

But honestly, if you’re cute, kind, and looking for something real, just match me and let’s see where it goes. :)

It is narrated from Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (peace be upon him):

“Whoever speaks excessively makes many mistakes; whoever makes many mistakes loses much of his modesty; whoever loses his modesty loses his piety; whoever loses his piety, his heart dies; and whoever’s heart dies enters the Fire.”

Source: Nahj al-Balagha

روي عن الإمام علي بن أبي طالب عليه السلام:

"مَن كَثُرَ كلامُهُ كَثُرَ خَطَؤُهُ، ومَن كَثُرَ خَطَؤُهُ قَلَّ حَياؤهُ، ومَن قَلَّ حَياؤهُ قَلَّ وَرَعُهُ، ومَن قَلَّ وَرَعُهُ ماتَ قَلبُهُ، ومَن ماتَ قَلبُهُ دَخَلَ النّارَ."

المصدر: نهج البلاغة

As-salamu alaykum I had one question how to win the fast on Monday and Thursday I would like to see how much is faith and you raise your hand cause you’re one of us

Your Relief is written. Don't lose hope. Your miracle will happen. It will all happen unexpectedly and you will wonder at how everything worked out for you, you will be amazed at how Allah answered your dua. So don't worry about your prayers, they are not going unheard and they will never be rejected. Trust your Loving Allah.