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Anyone attended “CJP” protest today at Jantar mantar????
Also tell me your views about it….🫴🏼
Genuine question:
Many of our mothers were homemakers who cooked daily, managed the household, and raised children full-time.
Today, many daughters prefer not to cook regularly and want a more equal split of household responsibilities.
Do you think this is simply a natural result of women having careers, or has something been lost between generations?
Curious to hear different perspectives.
🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING GOES LIVE 🌠
Asalamualaikum girlie pops & brothers,
Here's another sincere attempt to get y'all talking to a potential because y'all really trusted me with your romantic futures again 😭🍿
As always, the matches are based ONLY on age ranges & pure Friday night chaos.
As always, due to a disproportionate ratio of sisters vs brothers, some brothers have been matched with brothers only & sisters with sisters. I guess, it's bonding time for y'all until we find someone in your age range, next Friday in shaa Allah ✨
The rules remain the same, irrespective of whether I've tagged you with a prospect or a person of same gender (to befriend, pls don't think otherwise 🤦 astagfirullah!) -
✨ TALK IN THE COMMENTS FIRST
✨ Don’t disappear instantly
✨ Don’t act mysterious after voluntarily signing up
✨ Don't loveb0mb for Godsake!!!!!!!!!
Most importantly, before everyone starts planning nikkahs after 3 replies, a small reminder:
Not every interaction is meant to become a love story ✌️. Sometimes Allah swt places people in our paths for a lesson, a laugh, a moment of comfort or simply to show us what we do/don’t want. What is written for you will never miss you even if it's between 2 mountains & what misses you was never meant for you even if it was in the palm of your hand or tagged with you in a Jamaa comment section 🙃
So keep it respectful. No fake personalities, no embarrassing people publicly, no dragging conversations, no getting emotionally attached after “hii” 🤦 There's a decent, courteous way to let your match know that you guys are not compatible. Act mature like adults for once 🌚
Remember, our romantic rizq is written, our spouse is already written 💖 Good character & akhlaq will ALWAYS matter more than loveb0mbing/smooth flirting & like my best friends outside Jamaa assert - the right connection will bring peace & sukoon, not confusion & anxiety (read butterflies!).
If something good comes out of this, alhamdolillah.
If not, at least we know which lane to not visit now.
Regardless, duaon ki darkhast, homies (because nothing in this world is for free. You gotta return this kindness with duas for me & mine ✨🌻) 💌
Toh bismillah karein? Let the matchmaking begin 👀🔥
@yasin_07 say salaam & talk to @aaaaaaayat
@mohiuddinkhan333 say salaam & talk to @hebaaliakbar
@aanis674514 say salaam & talk to @Samira008
@khanajkmal say salaam & talk to @Noor865
@Aryann007 say salaam & talk to @SHOAIB90608
@mustafajunaid959001 say salaam & talk to @riaa4025998
@Mohdsaleem007 say salaam & talk to @nazrana99
@tumareabbujaan say salaam & talk to @zayeem54
@Mohd73658721 say salaam & talk to @anshrax
@Rahilkhan11 say salaam & talk to @Taha90123040
@AJOU7 say salaam & talk to @Bintayesha
@imshariq 32 say salaam & talk to @Sanammn
@Hamza15223489 say salaam & talk to @Stoneheartedkhan
@SchewpidAsh say salaam & talk to @Khan88649860
@mohammed_34 say salaam & talk to @Roohi53071832
@iamjibran 34 say salaam & talk to @Tee_Kay
@Sidra_beinghuman say salaam & talk to @Nish1612706
Ibn Hibban reported: Abu Darda, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer.”
Source: Rawḍat al-‘Uqalā’ 56
Looking for someone baby enjoys shopping... especially when it’s for me!
Everytime I feel I have found myself, I have been lost more than ever!
🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING 🌠
Asalamualaikum girlie pops & brothers,
Posting this a lil’ early today given y'all have been so excited in the runup to Fridays & flooded my DMs during that time 🤦
I love how the matches I shipped have sailed from last week, alhumdolillah, Allahumma barik 💌☺️ So here I am, once again, under the pretext that y'all trust me with your romantic futures on Jamaa🌻✨
You know the rules 💁 Drop YOUR username or YOUR FRIEND’S username in the comment section below
Along with:
✨ Age
✨ Preferred age range
And I’ll make a separate post later tonight, where I'll start matching people up, encouraged by the talking stages that whipped up last week & solely based on your age ranges. Those who have previously commented/DMed me asking to match them with filters of their choice - pls start acting your age & stop looking for spoonfeeding. Do the necessary filtering yourselves 🤗
I’ll skip tagging the ones already in a talking stage but y’all are free to tag your friends, if they’re genuinely looking for marriage & not here just to chill ✌️
Remember the rule:
If I match you with someone, y’all HAVE to talk in the comments first. No ghosting. No hiding. Public chemistry only 💀 Talking in the comments ensures that your opening move is halaal & nothing creepy/shady. You can obviously take it to the DMs once both of you are comfortable, even if it's right after the first salaam 🤭
The thing is, if y'all eventually take it to the DMs - okayyyy good for you! If it fizzles out in the comments, again - good for you because what’s written for you will never miss you even if it's between two mountains ✨
Don’t force connections, don’t fake personalities, no hard feelings, no embarrassment. Just respectfully behave like mature adults. Not every conversation is meant to become a love story & that’s okay ✌️
If the age & age groups are not mentioned, I won't be able to match you 😏
Example:
@yourusername/@yourbestie - 33 - looking for 32-37
Alright then, Bismillah!!! Let the matchmaking chaos begin 🍿🍿🍿
I finally got my life together… then life said, ‘That’s cute,’ and shuffled the cards again. 😂
Question for sisters in India - when you say 'Not open to live with in-laws', what does it actually mean:
- Not open to live in the same house as in-laws?
Or - Not open to share the floor within the same house?
Or - Not open to share the kitchen with in-laws?
If there's no na-mehram in the house, will it affect your decision?