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@Shabeer28
Assalaam Aalaikum, many Indian Muslim women want to sell themselves, they are looking for a buyer rather than a husband, they want to sell their affection and love. Most of Indian muslim Women want to be successful in terms of financial stability by getting finanicialy stable man, they do not want to support a Man for his success, but are interested in taxing him for getting married. Non Muslims have less disputes after marriage when compared to Muslims.
Why are males looking for girls upto 10 or more years younger than them? Do you think we are easy to groom? No we ain’t. We prefer someone around our age not uncles or males with age gap of more than 4 years.
I really feel ick sometimes them approaching sh am elessly being elderly to us, we don’t want to match with old ppl, better look for girls around your age. A 30 year old man like to approach 22 / 23 year old women, bolo😒 and those 27/ 28/29 yes you all are too old for us
Don’t be P a e d o s
@AYOUB66289350
O Allah! Guide me as those whom You have guided
@Faishal26189899
They say they are looking for marriage but maybe thats out of fomo, my cousin pointed out how we all use dating apps as a distraction from our own pain
Which makes me curious, while i don't trust matches here or any other sites, but have you met someone who has genuinely become your friend rather than another reason for therapy
@sam15645938
Anyone from lko
Hi I am from Kashmir(India), to all the muslims of India I am wanting them to visit kashmir (if you are planning a trip) to boost economy of local kashmiri muslims. The news you see about kashmir is 100% fake as you know media is controlled by government. And marry your daughters in muslim majority area as day day it is becoming unsafe for women due to rising Islamophobia & rape culture.
Shukran.
@Anti-fragile
🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING GOES LIVE 🌠
Asalamualaikum homies,
For the first time, the sisters vs brothers ratio was balanced & successfully got to match y’all without any same gender matches 😅 Usually the disproportionate ratio of sisters vs brothers in different age groups ended up in some ppl being matched with the same gender just so that we all got a chance to bond & none of us were left behind, with the promise to find those ppl a match in their age range, next Friday.
Khair, let’s hope this is the first of MANYYY to come, in shaa Allah ✨🥳☺️🤗 As always, I’m humbled by the confidence & the optimism y’all show in trusting me with your romantic futures 🍿🫠
Like always, the matches below are based ONLY on age ranges & pure Friday night chaos & the rules remain the same ✌️-
✨ TALK IN THE COMMENTS FIRST
✨ Don’t disappear instantly
✨ Don’t act mysterious after voluntarily signing up
✨ Don't flirt/ loveb0mb for Godsake!!!!!!!!!
Most importantly, before everyone starts planning nikkahs after 3 replies, a small reminder:
Not every interaction is meant to become a love story ✌️. Sometimes Allah swt places people in our paths for a lesson, a laugh, a moment of comfort or simply to show us what we do/don’t want. What is written for you will never miss you even if it's between 2 mountains & what misses you was never meant for you even if it was in the palm of your hand or tagged with you in a Jamaa comment section 🙃
So keep it respectful. No fake personalities, no embarrassing people publicly, no dragging conversations, no getting emotionally attached after “hii” 🤦 There's a decent, courteous way to let your match know that you guys are not compatible. Act mature like adults for once 🌚
Remember, our romantic rizq is written, our spouse is already written 🤌 Good character & akhlaq will ALWAYS matter more than loveb0mbing/smooth flirting & like my best friends outside Jamaa assert - the right connection will bring peace & sukoon, not confusion & anxiety (read butterflies!).
If something good comes out of this, alhamdolillah.
If not, at least we know which lane to not visit now.
Regardless, duaon ki darkhast, homies (because nothing in this world is for free. You gotta return this kindness with duas for me & mine ✨🌻) 💌
Toh bismillah karein? Let the matchmaking begin 👀🔥
@its_frozen say salaam & talk to @ravald
@M0IN say salaam & talk to @Madihaha01
@Xeuslothbrok say salaam & talk to @Saltanat_098
@Khizar5696 say salaam & talk to @Rabia777
@FaizAhmad86569507 say salaam & talk to @TehreemQureshi
@Shanif31462902 say salaam & talk to @ineedofguidance
@Waseem_muz say salaam & talk to @ru5
@Ehsan2012 say salaam & talk to @Ayesha61249695
_Ibn Hibban reported: Abu Darda, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer.”
Source: Rawḍat al-‘Uqalā’ 56_
@Anti-fragile
Closes at 8pm (INDIAN STANDARD TIME) tonight, October 23
🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING 🌠
Asalamualaikum homies,
That time of the week when we do this ☺️ under the pretext that y’all trust me with your romantic futures on Jamaa🌻✨
You know the rules 💁 Drop YOUR username or YOUR FRIEND’S username in the comment section below
Along with:
✨ Age
✨ Preferred age range
And I’ll make a separate post later tonight, where I'll start matching people up, encouraged by the talking stages that whipped up last week & solely based on your age ranges. Pls don’t DM me asking to match y’all with filters of your choice 🤦♀️ Put in some effort & do the necessary filtering yourselves. About time we started acting like adults who don’t need spoonfeeding with everything 🙂
I’ll skip tagging the ones already in a talking stage but y’all are free to tag your friends, if they’re genuinely looking for marriage & not here just to chill ✌️
Remember the rule:
If I match you with someone, y’all HAVE to talk in the comments first. No ghosting. No hiding. Public chemistry only 💀 Talking in the comments ensures that your opening move is halaal & nothing creepy/shady. You can obviously take it to the DMs once both of you are comfortable, even if it's right after the first salaam 🤭
The thing is, if y'all eventually take it to the DMs - okayyyy good for you! If it fizzles out in the comments, again - good for you because what’s written for you will never miss you even if it's between two mountains ✨
Don’t force connections, don’t fake personalities, no hard feelings, no embarrassment. Just respectfully behave like mature adults. Not every conversation is meant to become a love story & that’s okay ✌️
If the age & age groups are not mentioned, I won't be able to match you 😏
Example:
@yourusername/@yourbestie - 33 - looking for 32-37
Alright then, Bismillah!!! Let the matchmaking chaos begin 🍿🍿🍿
Reminder: This closes at 8pm IST tonight, October 23
@Umair84468763
“Smiling outside, breaking inside.”
Assalamualaikum
I am so tired of guys who don’t know how to hold a conversation. I matched with someone who refuses to contribute unless prompted. Like when I ask him "how are you" he replies “ Iam great and how about you”and lets the conversation die. If I don't ask a counter-question, he just leaves me on read. Like If I reply Alhamdulillah Iam good and if I stop, he will view my reply and goes silent.
I started the conversation just today but his ways of conversation gives an idea of his communication or seriousness, I strongly adore Masculinity hence it is making me more uninterested in him. Masculinity feels dead in this generation; so many men act completely passive and recessive.
How would you deal with such feminine male?