The 30s
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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬
@MOHSHA
Before dating me you must understand that I'll never post you, not even your hand.
@mariyamasriki778556
What do you think is the main reason so many people complain about not finding serious matches on this app?
And if you could suggest one or two changes that might improve the situation, what would they be?
Let's hear your thoughts. 👇🏾
@mariyamasriki778556
"I had a secret to tell, my friend — will you have the time?"🌸
@lennyulia
I’m trying to find my soulmate with absolutely no strategy. 💀😂
@ikhansafi
90s Core
@maryem944879
Hi
@eyeda
The last time I felt this stuck and helpless was when I was about 100 days away from my A Levels. I was desperately trying to catch up on my studies, convinced that my future looked bleak and that there wasn't much hope ahead.
Somehow, by Allah's mercy, I persevered. I kept going, left the rest to Allah, and here I am more than 8 years later, still working at the same place I joined after graduating from university. Alhamdulillah.
I honestly thought I'd never experience that same feeling of being completely stuck again, but here I am at another crossroads in life.
Alhamdulillah for my family and the people Allah has blessed me with. I know I'm far from lacking. Yet I can't seem to shake this feeling.
Life has started to feel... mundane.
I know this dunya is temporary and isn't meant to feel like Jannah. But at the same time, I don't think this is how I want to spend the life Allah has entrusted me with.
There are so many things I want to do, places I want to grow, and dreams I want to chase. But somehow I always feel limited by time, by energy, or maybe even by myself.
I don't really have the answer yet. I guess I'm just making dua that Allah guides me towards a life that is more meaningful, beneficial, and pleasing to Him. One step at a time, insyaAllah.
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