The 50+

It's officially Flu season my 50plus family...( GET YOUR FLU SHOT)
I still wear my mask I do not care because people be coughing and sneezing and freely and touching stuff and I'll be like no...HELL NO

And as a healthcare employee we got to get the flu shot I get it every year so and I never get sick I also got the pneumonia vaccine which I don't have to worry about getting

"True excellence is not loving yourself so much that you think you’re above everyone else — that was Iblis’s sin when he declared, 'I am better than him' [Quran 7:12]. The noblest character is this: Love for others exactly what you wish for yourself — no matter their race, background, or status. If Iblis had loved Prophet Adam (AS) as he loved himself, pride would never have destroyed him."

Sometimes Allah breaks your heart to save your soul. What you think is pain is actually protection.

When you have put your trust in Allah, then nothing can break you. What is written for you will find you.

⚠️ A SOLEMN WARNING

It is saddening to realize that we often support what is harām far more quickly than we support the reminders that call us toward Allāh.

When there is indecency, music, mockery, gossip, or anything forbidden in Islam — we are quick to like, share, comment, and show support. Yet when an Islamic reminder crosses our feed, it feels as if it burns us — we avoid it, scroll past it, and often do not even acknowledge it.

This is not about begging for likes, shares, or support for those who do da‘wah. This is about our own well-being as Muslims. For supporting good deeds may become part of our ajr (reward), while helping to spread sin is something we should truly fear.

Be careful with every like, share, comment, and support you give to what is harām — for we are accountable for what we do. Do not let our hands become a means for sin to spread, while we ignore the opportunity to spread goodness and the teachings of Islam.

Allāh says:

"And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear Allāh. Indeed, Allāh is severe in penalty."
— Qur'ān 5:2

Painful as it is to say, there are people on social media who are more eager to support harām and empty, frivolous videos than content that teaches them about their own religion.

And some will even say: "They’re just jealous," "They just want attention," or "They’re just showing off."

This is not how we should see it.

Our ustādhs and ‘ulamā’ are not on social media doing da‘wah for the sake of "content." They use this technology as a way to bring the teachings of Islam to us — to remind us of what we have forgotten, to correct our mistakes, and to convey the truth.

So do not be so quick to judge those who remind us. The reminder you scroll past today could be the very thing that changes your life tomorrow.

And do not wait until these opportunities are gone before you realize their worth.

A day will come when we will be held accountable for everything we did — before Allāh.

So ask yourself:

If all the content you ever supported were placed before you on the Day of Judgment — would you be happy to see it?

Be careful what you watch.
Be careful who you follow.
Be careful what you like and share.
And above all — be careful what you support.

The question is not only: "What am I watching?"
But rather: "What am I helping to spread?"

Remember:
If you sin by supporting what is harām, imagine how much greater it is when you do it openly and repeatedly — and help it reach thousands more who may follow the same path.

Every share, every like, every silence in the face of wrong — it all weighs on your scale.

May Allāh guide us, protect us, and make us those who spread good and not evil. 🤲🏼❤️

Enjoying travel and new grandbaby! https://youtu.be/UBnNfHblDkE?is=NQRg_5ZjUHZfmt0W

The reason we grow careless with our Salah and become comfortable with sin — is simply that we have forgotten death. When we forget that we will return to Allah, wrongdoing feels easy and neglect feels small. But when we remember that this life is short, every prayer matters, and every sin weighs heavy upon the heart. 🤲🏼

To apologize is not to say 'I am wrong and you are right.' It is to say: 'Our bond means more to me than my pride. I choose us over my ego.'"

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