Psychology & Neurodiversity

https://welevelupwa.com/can-you-be-addicted-to-depression/

We see things differently

It's normal that we see things differently. As each one of us has their own brain that may process things differently as no two human beings also have the same fingerprint.

My understanding and application of an idea would be different to someone else. No two people may understand the same core values in the same way.

For example, " honesty" , someone's understanding may be just telling the truth while someone else's understanding may be beyond that and being transparent with things they were not asked about.
Two slightly different perspectives that are normal to have.

Plus we all have different experiences and life circumstances that may influence our perspectives and our outlook on life.

In conclusion, communicating clearly & respectfully our perspectives it's needed and it's up to the other person whether to consider our input or not.

Or whether our way of understanding to their perspectives is our deal breaker and vice versa.

May Allah SWT purify our characters and take us back to Him in the best of health and eman ameen.

💙 الحمدلله
Astaghfiru'Allah 🤍 📿

# human behaviour patterns
# different perspective
# Dua
# One Ummah ☪️

A woman who can “handle it all” secretly never wants to.

Most of the time, she does it out of necessity and a survival instinct that she learned as a young girl.

She’s conditioned herself never to need help.

When you are masculine, and you handle things strongly and gently, you pull her out of HER masculine energy.

That’s when you see her become playful, affectionate, and FEMININE.

If you fail to lead and tiptoe around her to appease her, she will take the reins by default and will never respect you.

When you are masculine and handle things in a strong, gentle way, you pull her out of her masculine energy.

That’s when you see her become playful, affectionate, and FEMININE.

Choosing distance doesn’t make us cold or heartless; it simply means We’ve learned to value ourself enough to stop accepting the same pain in different forms. Some people may say We’ve changed and they’re right. We finally learned that not everyone deserves another opportunity to disturb the peace We worked so hard to find.

Assalamualaikum everyone!
I am hoping to get some guidance here- for someone who can't afford to see a psychologist right now. If anyone with relevant knowledge or experience could offer some support or advice, it could genuinely help this person live a better life. Any help is deeply appreciated.

Do you believe that we are often drawn to people who carry the same psychological wounds as we do...????
And when one of them begins to heal,
they eventually leave the one who is still unhealed......

Bismillah
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barahkatuh
Notices some from this has very bad "habit"? 🤔

Belittling others or mocking their intelligence brings no real gain — only a hollow, fleeting pride that fades fast. It is not strength; it is weakness.

Islam never teaches this. Allah forbids ridiculing one another. The Prophet ﷺ said arrogance includes belittling people. To degrade a fellow servant of Allah earns you no favour with Him — only accountability.

Real greatness does not come by making others small. It comes through kindness, humility, and lifting others up — for the sake of Allah alone.

​I know how intense a breakup can be. But you are not here to spend your life obsessing over someone who broke your heart. You are here to build a meaningful, full life. Let them go.

"🫶🏼Give yourself the same kindness & support you would give to a good friend or loved one”-Dr. Kristin Neff
👨🏻‍⚕️A study on 2012 by two Clinical & Psychological Therapy researchers from UK; Angus MacBeth & Andrew Gumley showed that individuals who are more compassionate toward themselves cope better with stress, experience less anxiety & depression and builds greater resilience in difficult times.
🔎Source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22796446/