Psychology & Neurodiversity

Question for everyone

why some ppl love to manipulate everyone?

only psychological answer?

Imagine being the reason someone started believing that good people still exist.

Love needs action. Trust need proof. Sorry needs change.

I want a business partner but I feel like nobody is gonna be as passionate and dedicated as me

John Locke once asked a fascinating question:

If you woke up tomorrow with no memories, would you still be you?

Maybe our identity isn't just our past.
Maybe it's the values we'd choose all over again.

(Nothing's quite enough, when I know that to get it, I BEGGED 💔) Hey y'all today's vibe might be a little Debbie downer. (BUT I SHALL TRY MY BEST TO DELIVER IT IN GOOD SPIRITS LIKE USUAL 😤🫶) Today's topic honestly idk what's the best word I can use to describe it. Anxiety? Overthinking? I think we will just stick to those two for now.( I had other words in mind, BUT I FORGOT it BY THE TIME I FINISHED MY DAILY MAKEUP 💄 ROUTINE 🤣) #MEMORY LOSS !!

One thing I realized, is that you can have all the anxiety in the world 🌍 that makes you overthink and overanalyze. But it's not another person's problem 💞 you can't constantly be asking for reassurance like 24/7 (GET A LIFE POOKIE😭💕)Sure the other person can do you a solid and comfort you respectfully, but everything has a limit. Someone with anxious attachment style will never feel like everything is good. A quick shift in tone, will send that person down in spiral. My words for those anxious folks today (JUST CUZ YOU HAVE ANXIETY 🫪 DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO SHARE THAT WITH THOSE WHO ARE AROUND YOU 🙄) Sometimes you just have to work on yourself, by yourself to be better. (It feels low-key ironic rn since I was talking about dependency yesterday 🤣😅) But that's THE MOOD I WOKE UP WITH 😎, COME FIGHT ME IN THE COMMENTS 😏 LOL toodooles ~

Try being happy and grateful consciously, otherwise your hurt will take you in a never ending sadness and hopelessnes.

Yesterday gave you experience.
Today is your opportunity to try.
Tomorrow will show the results.
Use yesterday's experience to make the most of today, and you'll achieve success tomorrow.

Someone once asked me,
"Why do people become so defensive?"
Perhaps because not every shield is protecting pride.
Sometimes it's protecting a wound.
The Qur'an taught me to look twice before judging a reaction.
A harsh reply may hide fear. Silence may hide grief. Anger may be covering shame.
The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) never treated every heart as if it carried the same story.
He listened. He understood. He responded with wisdom.
Maybe emotional intelligence isn't becoming an expert at reading people.
Maybe it's remembering that only Allah truly knows what a heart is carrying.
And that reminder alone can make us a little gentler with one another.

When I say my love language is a physical touch "but you hate people touching you" that's exactly why it's my love language.
It's reserved for people I truly love and feel the most comfortable.