Psychology & Neurodiversity

Am I the only one who feels a sense of unease whenever I log into the app?

I pray to Allah Almighty that you all succeed in life. May Allah bless you and grant you success in everything you do.

The men loosing their heads when I said I’m single by choice and I don’t need a man is just a crack up -🤣🤣🤣

Some say I’m selfish for not getting married (I died…hahah) ☠️☠️

Another said I’m a Hadith rejector
Another said I’m quoting the Bible.
Another saying I’m rejecting the Quran
I’m cursed apparently according to another 🤪
One called me ugly (although I don’t have a photo of myself)
And when I said I’m celibate frm birth, one said - “celibacy is not from Islam.” lolol 🤣🤣🤣

I just can’t!!
Imagine making a comedy, gathering all these men together.

Farrr out!! It will be a hit show !

Like how dare can a women not marry. Hahahaha

I wonder, have marriage been programmed into their culture to the extent that their identity is practically built upon the believe a Muslim HAVE to be married otherwise they are not a Muslim or they can’t get into heaven? I don’t know what the story is behind such mindset.

I find it quite sad to be honest.

The levels of fitna lately are reaching unbearable hights.
I refuse to participate.
Time to shut it down.

☝️☝🏻☝🏾☝🏼☝️☝🏼☝🏽☝🏻☝🏾

Bismillah

True growth isn’t about gaining more of this world—it’s about learning what truly lasts. When your heart sets its gaze on the eternal Akhirah, the noise of temporary Duniya fades away. That is the moment you find peace, purpose, and the clearest path home. ✨

The right people will never ask you to be less.

Anyone who loves philosophy and psychological analysis?

Why We Crave to Be Understood
Lately, I've been wondering...
Why is it so important to us to be understood?
Perhaps because there is a quiet ache in every heart that longs to hear, I understand.
It's strange, isn't it?
We can forgive someone for misunderstanding our words.
But when they misunderstand our intentions...
that lingers.
Words introduce us.
Intentions remain hidden.
Maybe that's why being misunderstood hurts so deeply.
It doesn't just change what people think of our words.
It changes what they think of our hearts.
The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) had a way of making people feel seen before they felt corrected.
The more I reflect on that, the more I realise that understanding someone isn't always about having the perfect response.
Maybe mercy isn't always found in what we say.
Sometimes it's found in the conclusions we refuse to make.

Why We Crave to Be Understood
Lately, I've been wondering...
Why is it so important to us to be understood?
Perhaps because there is a quiet ache in every heart that longs to hear,
"I understand."
It's strange, isn't it?
We can forgive someone for misunderstanding our words.
But when they misunderstand our intentions...
that lingers.
Words introduce us.
Intentions remain hidden.
The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) had a way of making people feel seen before they felt corrected.
The more I reflect on that, the more I realise that understanding someone isn't always about having the perfect response.
Sometimes, it's about giving them the safety to be known without rushing to judge.
Perhaps one of the kindest things we can offer another heart is the relief of not having to explain itself twice.

Now I am building a life I love.
And if love finds me, it will become part of that life— not the whole of it.