Psychology & Neurodiversity

The Mind Behind Comparison
Have you ever mistaken someone else's light for proof that yours had gone out?
Or looked at another person's life for so long that your own began to feel ordinary?
Lately, I've been wondering...
Perhaps comparison doesn't begin with envy.
Perhaps it begins with forgetting.
Forgetting that no two hearts carry the same story.
No two souls are walking the same road.
Comparison is a quiet poet.
It edits another person's life into a masterpiece...
while reducing yours to a single unfinished sentence.
How unfair.
Not to them.
To yourself.
Maybe that's why comparison feels so heavy.
It asks us to measure lives that were never meant to be measured against each other.
Perhaps peace begins the moment we stop asking,
Why don't I have what they have?
and start noticing the gifts we've been walking past all along.

How much of your personality is yours, and how much is a survival strategy?

Never underestimate how quickly God can turn the tables in your favour.

How do people become convinced they’re right?

People who cause harm often sincerely believe they are doing good. They cast themselves as the righteous advisers.

Most people believe they are enforcing truth, justice or morality while causing harm, knowingly or unknowingly to the people around them.

The difficult question isn’t simply “Who is the oppressor?” but “How do we recognise when we might be mistaken and causing harm to others?”

To me, that is a much deeper philosophical question than simply asking whether someone is good or bad.

What are your thoughts? 💭

Patterns over time are more informative than any single exchange.
They often point (.) toward something worth paying attention to.

It's important to evaluate and test these against incomplete information, one offs and coincidences.
Time is a factor and when there are many variables identification can become complex.

Perception/interpretation of collected pattern data is on the interpreter.

Time is a constant - The reveal
Time is the canvas.

With enough collected data one could-might, just soft or hard predict actions, behaviors, reactions and events ( small and large) based on the identified/ observed pattern while factoring in any other supporting data to hypothesize a likely trajectory.

Acknowledge whole rather than single events. Patterns may reveal likely trajectories even when the whole remains fluid or partially unknown.

🤔

whats difference between hijab/modesty and stylishness and exhibitionism for men and women?

Never think Allah’s delay means Allah has forgotten you. Sometimes He is arranging something your mind cannot imagine yet.

Is it possible for someone to forget a person they parted ways with, only to meet them by chance one day in the emergency room? We stared at each other, then he became visibly nervous and hurried away.

Ppl know what others do but they dont know what they do🙏

so if this parasite is going around, how are we getting our greens? 🫪