Psychology & Neurodiversity

Salaam all, what's new?🙂

Sometimes no need to be perfect, just try to be always progressing.

🎮 Let's play a fun game! 😄

How many Likes do you currently have... without intentionally trying to get a Match? 👀

Who's secretly collecting the highest number of Likes? 😂

And here's the interesting part:
What's the main reason that makes you leave someone on "Like" without hitting "Match"?

I'll start with my number... 👇

Now it's your turn! 😄

Sky Blue for Koh Ahong
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Saturday nights in the mid-90s always had their own story.Under a clear night sky,Ahong paced back and forth beside his motorcycle.His flannel shirt was neat,his tall,burly frame looked even more dashing.But his face?Slouched.

The reason?Chika had just left the house,munching on a chocolate bar,in an outfit that made Ahong sigh.A sky blue t-shirt,sky blue jeans,even her hair clip was sky blue.

"Is it taking so long,Chik?It's rusty waiting,"Ahong grumbled,his lips parting a few inches.A habit he had when he was starting to sulk.Chika laughed softly."Yeah,the important thing is that I'm pretty.Here,do you want some chocolate?"Chika offered her remaining chocolate bar,deliberately teasing her boyfriend.

"No!Still sulking!"
"Really?Okay,go to the guy selling iced doger out front,"Chika teased,turning around and pretending to walk away.
"Hey,hey!Come here!Don't mess around!"Ahong immediately tugged gently at Chika's arm.His face immediately turned protective.His jealous nature immediately came out whenever Chika started flirting with other guys.

Chika burst out laughing,satisfied with having successfully pranked her super handsome but easily provoked Chinese boyfriend."Just kidding,Hong!You're as sensitive as a baby's bottom.Let's go!"

That night,their schedule was packed like a 90s teen's day.They initially stopped in the village square because of the KUDA LUMPING (horse dance) performance.Chika,humorous and restless,was busy cheering in the front row,even mimicking the dancer's movements and poking Ahong's waist,making the big man ticklish.

"Chika,ah! It's embarrassing to be seen,"Ahong whispered,his face flushed red.But he kept his hand firmly on Chika's fingers,afraid that his petite girlfriend would be bumped into by someone else.As generous as usual,Ahong bought up all the snacks around,from cotton candy to ICE MAMBO just because Chika said "oh,cute."

After enjoying the kuda lumping,they moved to the next field where LAYAR TANCEP (Warkop Film) was being shown (Dono,Kasino,Indro).They sat on old newspapers on the grass.The night wind blew quite hard.Chika shivered slightly,pulling her SKY BLUE shirt closer to her.

Seeing this,without a word,Ahong took off his flannel shirt and draped it over Chika's shoulders.The scent of masculine perfume mixed with hair oil immediately embraced Chika."Still cold?"Ahong asked softly,his voice softening drastically.His romantic side came out when the atmosphere was favorable.

Chika turned her head,gazing at Ahong's handsome face from the side under the dim light of the projector screen.Her playfulness suddenly evaporated,replaced by a warmth that spread through her chest."No.Thanks,Hong,"Chika whispered, then leaned her head on Ahong's broad shoulder.
Ahong smiled,embracing Chika's shoulders even tighter."Anything for you.Just don't flirt with other guys."
Chika pinched Ahong's stomach gently,making him groan softly before they both laughed together,lost in the simple yet sweet romance of the late 90s.

My dear women, Before choosing a man, make sure that he is not a Mamma's boy, Not controlled by his Parents and family. This type of man is emotionally immatured and they are not independent mentally and emotionally. They have no self identity. They will make your life hell.

Do we really fall in love with the person?
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Or just an idea of that person?

Thoughts?

Currently I read this book , in English it calls
“Anatomic habits”

And it’s motivate me to be better .

Highly recommend to everyone

What is it about toxic relationships & friendships that makes a person come back for more? 🤔

Is it the lack of self respect or something else?