Psychology & Neurodiversity

I was watching a game related series this is not the first time though but today again an abundance of thoughts came through the mind, I will only write a bit here the reality, we are exactly living like these games each one playing individually with our own thoughts, the rules and regulations are given, the story is also given of the beginning and the end, the if are there, the more surprising thing is the power to think the things that are beyond understanding is also given and shouldn't wander in them, time differences exists and many more comparatively the time we have here is very very short and still its so difficult to live by those rules and regulations, I will stop here now.

Attention & Focus

" Create a boundary around your attention. And defend it as seriously you will defend your money. To build this ability start small. Choose one task that matters. Set a timer for a 45 minutes and remove everything that can interrupt you. When the urge to check something appears, notice it without giving in to it. The urge will rise, peak and fall. Each time you let it pass, you strengthen the muscle that makes deep work possible. Then protect the results. Work that took deep focus is often the work people eventually notice, even if they never see the hours behind it."
_ Unknown quote _

May Allah SWT purify our characters, bless our efforts and take us back to Him in the best of health and eman ameen.

💙 الحمدلله
Astaghfiru'Allah 🤍 📿
13/10/26 Tue M 08:045

# Attention
# Dua
# One Ummah ☪️

💰 You become a billionaire tomorrow.
Your businesses run themselves. Your health is excellent. You can travel anywhere, live anywhere, and buy anything.

But there’s a catch.

You can never know whether people genuinely likes you or is interested in your money. There’s no test, technology, or way to find out.

What’s your response?

A. Easy. I don’t need anyone to like me.

B. Keep my wealth private and observe how people treat me.

C. Accept that I’ll never know for certain. That’s life.

D. Build a life so enjoyable that other people’s motives become irrelevant.

E. Why would I care? I’m a billionaire.

And please remember: you don't have to be completely healed to deserve happiness. You deserve peace even while you're still learning how to heal.

The manosphere claims that women have an expiry date, supposedly as early as 30 !
But if a woman’s desirability is said to decline with age, then at what age do you feel a man’s mental shelf life expires ?

When does his intellect become less stimulating, his conversation less engaging, his annoyance too repetitive, and his va-va-voom less attractive to draw you in anymore ?

Like some men do... can you put an age, time or a marker on it ?
So ladies in your opinion, what constitutes a mans expiry date ?

🧠 𝗔 𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗟𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗩𝗘 𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗗

A man has studied patience for 20 years. He quotes scripture beautifully, teaches others about controlling anger, and regularly attends religious gatherings.

Yet when his own family challenges him, he becomes harsh, angry, and humiliates them.

🤔 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺?

🅰️ He needs more religious knowledge.

🅱️ His knowledge hasn't transformed his character.

🅲️ His anger proves his knowledge is worthless.

🅳️ True spirituality means never feeling anger.

💭 𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀' 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 — 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝘆?

📖 Inspired by Ibn al-Qayyim's Madārij al-Sālikīn.

“The happiness of most people is not ruined by great catastrophes or fatal errors, but by the repetition of slowly destructive little things.” – Ernest Dimnet

Your daily actions are either a bet for or against your future self.


We never start if we never start, say Bismillah and take the first step. ✨️

May Allah SWT purify our characters, bless our efforts and take us back to Him in the best of health and eman ameen.

💙 الحمدلله
Astaghfiru'Allah 🤍 📿

# 1st step
# Dua
# One Ummah ☪️

A clear sign someone really isn't
Interested in you is that they do not
Ask you questions.
THERE IS NO CURIOSITY.