Psychology & Neurodiversity
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@Merrythegreat
THE ALPHA WOLF FOUNDATION IS FLAWED
There is no such thing as an ALPHA male. David Mech, the biologist who wrote the famous book titled "The Wolf" in 1970 provided basis for this term. However, through continuous research David corrected his idea of alpha wolf in 1990s. He concluded that, in wild wolves stay as families, and larger wolves are parents who provide care to their families instead of being assertive and aggressive, the traits usually associated with alpha males. Leading a pack by being assertive can be the case in captivity where different wolves (not belonging to one family) are trying to survive.
Despite this, the ALPHA concept became highly popular, so did beta and sigma. However, these are not backed by psychology. So what's the implication of this for men. Is it important to have alpha traits in relationships? NO.
BE ADAPTIVE
An ALPHA by being decisive and assertive when faced with important life decisions and family obligations..Also, don't let your boundaries to be crossed by anyone.
A beta by being supportive and cooperative towards your partner. Don't be mean and selfish by imposing your opinions on them all the time.
A sigma by maintaining your own identity, hobbies, and friendships without being overly dependent on your partner.
https://tecscience.tec.mx/en/education-and-humanism/myth-of-the-alpha-male/
For Decades we Believed in the Myth of the Alpha Male, but the Evidence Tells a Different Story
https://tecscience.tec.mx/en/education-and-humanism/myth-of-the-alpha-male/
@Nazimagine313
𝐁𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐋. 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓’𝐒 𝐄𝐍𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇.
Sometimes, people turn out to be different from who we thought they were. And honestly, that hurts. You don’t expect anyone to be perfect. You just hope for a little honesty, a little empathy, and someone whose actions match their words.
Because a genuine connection isn’t about pretending to be good. It’s about being real, even when nobody is watching.
We may not always find the people we hope for, but that shouldn’t stop us from being the people we believe in.
In a world full of appearances, let your heart be honest. Because being genuine may not impress everyone, but it will mean everything to the right people.
_Nazimagine
@khadizhah
In as much as I Really want to join a polo club because horseback riding is my favorite Sunnah
These membership prices just brought me right back to reality… SubhanAllah 😭😥
@khadizhah
Any interesting Islamic course with certification someone can take on cousera?
@Merveicva
Just a question; does your taste in music 🎶 or movie 🎬 actually reflect who you are, or is it just an esthetic costume you wear for the world?
Was just wondering 🤔
@Mrfarhanshahzad
Life must go on, no matter how much it hurts. I may break, but I will heal, rise, and find hope again. Whatever happens, Allah is with me. Better days will come, InshaAllah.
@blurzim
Having an incredibly rough time. I cant execute any of the plans and routines I made. Feeling somewhat betrayed by the universe. I’m trying the collect the pieces and move on
Sometimes I wish I was more selfish with more self-preservation
@Elefzed
Self-determination is fine but needs to be tempered with self-control.
-Anonymous
@haymish
Good morning ! 😀
The clocks may have gone back an hour, but judging by the recent activity on here, we’ve leapt a decade into the future overnight ! 👀 🚀 🔥
From lust and kinks to fantasies, phone s33x, booty calls, well-endowed appendages, erotic desires, nymphomania, threesomes, bondage, and sapphic temptations…
Goodness me, Jamaa, whatever happened to the old you ? 😳
It's even got the Mylfs and Cougars dusting off their Mark one Hitachi 3000's 🥵
Welcome to Jamaa 2.0 🫡
The "newfounded" sexual revolution, where inhibitions are slipping, fantasies are finding their voice, and anonymity is apparently the ultimate aphrodisiac ! 😏
And yet, I was practically sent to the tower, not so long back, for posting about sanitary products ! 🙄
Where's the self flagelating Haraam police now ? 🖕🏻
So tell me, Jamaa… 😁
Have we finally liberated our desires by showing our human nature, or are we simply discovering what people were hiding behind those innocent profile pictures and halal words all along ? 😉
Is this display of sexual liberation...
delicious, shameful, hypocrisy...
or a little bit of... menage e trois ?
I'm all ears, and judging by this refreshed timeline, perhaps I should be prepared for absolutely anything !
😈💋
Come on, don't be shy…we all have needs... Viva la Revolución !
👀👄🍑✊🏻🍆🌮👅🔻💦😉