Psychology & Neurodiversity

Your smile is a rose, your eyes sparkle like daisies, and your gentle personality is the ribbon that ties it all together....

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Allah is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO loving. He never gets tired of hearing your du’as..

It’s a New Month;
Change your toothbrush.
Deworm yourself.
Go for HIV Test 🖤🖤

(LIVE NOW THINK LATER, I DO IT SO WELL 🥱❣️) Hey y'all today's topic of discussion is me😏 hehe JK I'm not that narcissistic 😝🤣.( BUT I AM TO A CERTAIN DEGREE 😉 LOUD AND PROUD 😎) Today's topic is WORRIES? CONCERNS? PLANNING? yah still can't put it into one word 🫪🫶. And if you're not new here, you know it's personal story time 😜

So I used to spend my everyday worrying about my future 😬. And I kept it up for like solid 7+ years 🫣( I KNOW I'M JUDGING ME TOO WITH YOU 🤷🏻‍♀️) After certain point I realized I'm not really living my PRESENT. Because I'm SO concerned about how my life would look like in few years 🤔🧐😳. Oh and I let my past TRAUMAS ✨ consume me too while I was doing all dat. But then I realized, (I GOTTA LET IT GO ~~LIKE ELSA😂🩵🌬️❄️) I used save things to use it for later, like a new dress, or new shoe, new perfume etc. BUTT NO MORE 🍑.

Moral of the story, I need you to listen 👂🏻for today. It's okay to plan about your future, because you want your life to look a certain way in that TIME SKIP..🫶 But if you don't enjoy the time you have now,( it's SUCH A LOSS, POOKIE 😭🥺) So go buy that thing you wanted, go through with that trip you have been putting off, take that vacation now (if you can afford it 😉😂) instead of saving it for later. You're gonna be doing yourself a favor! (Disclaimer: I'm not gonna be held RESPONSIBLE for any FUTURE BANKRUPTCYS 🙂‍↔️😌) I'm not telling you to go MAX OUT your credit cards 💳 😝. KEY WORD NOT 🚫. Anyways I hope y'all get the point ☝🏻 TOODLES°^°

Salaam all.

I had a follow up question after my post yesterday.

argumentative people please scroll past this

disclaimer: I don't care what people choose to do or not to do, I am primarily concerned with myself and only those for whom I have a responsibility, because that's all I will be asked about

How do you deal with family or friends who have a very different perspective to you on certain things to do with deen or personal choices which go against the 'norm' in your family?

For example, vaccinations (this one triggered even strangers yesterday 😅), celebrating birthdays, mixed weddings, screen time for young children, music, liberalisation of the practises of our deen etc.

Do you find them to be accepting and respectful of your choice or do you get criticised or ridiculed? How do you deal with it if it's the latter?

For me, I've faced a lot of resistance to all the examples I gave above. I try to explain why I've chosen what I have and if there is still anger or negativity, I simply ask them if they will bear my sins on the Day of Judgement? That usually ends the discussion pretty quickly lol and people have no choice to accept my choice, however grudgingly. And of course the black sheep label stays, but alhamdulillah I'm happy to be the black sheep if it means I'm trying to do what will please my Lord.

I am grateful for my perfect health, for the understanding & practicing of Islam.
I am grateful for living in Mecca 🕋 and for my famiy.
What are u grateful for today?
Drop me 3.
May Allah bless u abundantly eternally Amin

I feel like I need to take another break from this app. How are y’all coping cause I feel like the longer I’m on here the more drained and tired I am. So over the pointless talking stages that go no where. Also the guys on this app suck at communication…

POV
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I want to marry someone because I genuinely want her to be part of most moments in my life not just to get married for the sake of being married. And I want the woman who chooses me to choose me because she truly wants me to be part of most moments in her life, not simply because I happened to come along at a time when she was looking for someone who seemed like a suitable match on the surface.