Psychology & Neurodiversity

Forget looks, money and status for a moment. What is one quality that would make you seriously consider someone for marriage?

learn to stand alone. trust your own judgment. build your own stability. enjoy your own company. love people without depending on them for your happiness. because the strongest kind of security is knowing that even when life changes, you can still rely on yourself.

MS — I have it.

A lot of people may hear the name of this disease and not really know what it is. Some might think it’s just normal tiredness or a little exhaustion… but the truth is, MS is an autoimmune disease in which the immune system mistakenly attacks parts of the nervous system. It can affect movement, vision, sensation, balance, concentration, and the nerves in general.

And one question I get asked a lot is: Why did this happen to me?

The truth is, the exact cause of MS is still not fully understood. It’s not because someone did something wrong. It’s not contagious, and it doesn’t mean that a person is weak or that their life is over.

There are genetic, environmental, and immune-related factors that may play a role, but there isn’t one single cause that we can point to and say, “This is exactly why it happened.”

And sometimes, the hardest part about this disease is that you can be standing in front of people, talking and laughing, looking completely fine… while inside, your body is fighting a battle that no one can see.

You might wake up one day feeling capable of doing everything, and the next day you may find yourself exhausted, dealing with blurred vision, numbness, weakness, dizziness, or difficulties with movement and concentration.

That can be incredibly exhausting, both physically and emotionally, because you never really know how your body is going to feel tomorrow.

But having MS does not mean that a person has to stop living their life.

So if you see someone apologizing for something, feeling tired for no obvious reason, or unable to do something they used to do easily… please don’t judge them based only on what you can see.

Not every kind of pain is visible.

I’m tired… I’m so, so tired.

The physical exhaustion is not easy. Sometimes it comes with blurred vision, extreme fatigue, weakness, and symptoms that make even the simplest things I used to do so easily feel impossible.

And what’s even harder than the physical exhaustion is the emotional exhaustion.

Waking up every day without knowing how your body is going to feel. Being afraid of tomorrow and of what might happen. Being afraid that your life could change against your will.

Trying to look strong in front of everyone while feeling completely drained on the inside.

I’m not writing this because I want anyone to feel sorry for me, and I’m not saying that I’m weaker than anyone else.

I just need, for the first time, to say this honestly:

I’m tired.

And I need the people who love me, the people who know me, and even those who have only come across this post, to pray for me.

Pray that Allah makes this easier for me, grants me complete healing — a healing that leaves no illness behind — gives me strength for the days ahead, brings peace to my heart, and heals me in a way that makes me forget all the exhaustion and fear I’ve been through.

Maybe a prayer from someone I don’t even know could be the reason for a great relief from Allah.

So if you ever remember me in your prayers, please don’t hold back a prayer for me. 🤍

Assalam o alaikum , i need a psychologist is there anyone who can contact me

We broke our own rules for someone, only to end up broken ourselves.
Sometimes Allah allows a heartbreak to guide us back to Him. 🤍 Trust His wisdom.

Be careful what you keep telling yourself.
Your words shape how you see your life.
Speak good, make du’a, and trust Allah.

Taqwa and Gratitude are one of the frequencies most strongest, they emit a great signal and Allah responds to them by matching (delivering what u are internally) make sense?
When u do this u are imploring Allah to help u, you are calling upon him to protect u, guide u, make a way for u etc etc.
Because you being Allah consciousness (this restricts u from doing the impermissible to gain what u seek) with this He takes on the role to provide for u what u seek (the catch is u put ur trust in Him and practise sweet patience) and have certainty it shall happen. Even though it might not look like the thing u wanted?

Your inner and what Allah will give you due to your inner is always a match.

Allah says:

“I am as My servant thinks of Me.”
Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim

The aim is to have good expectations of Allah.
BUT He will give what’s best for u / what u need to level up etc etc
NOT what’s necessarily restricted to what u think u want / ask.
So relax and know no matter what happens He has u, He has your best interest at hand
ALWAYS!

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BROOO yes 😭 and some are *properly documented, not just “TikTok says this happened.” A few are genuinely WTF:

1. 👯‍♀️ Twins separated for 77 YEARS

Ann Hunt and Elizabeth Hamel were born in England in 1936, but were separated as babies and adopted/raised apart.

They didn't meet until 2014, when they were 78.

They had been apart for 77 years and 289 days, a Guinness World Records record. One sister didn't even know she had a twin. Guinness World Records+1

And here's the insane part: researchers documented a bunch of similarities in their lives after they reunited. This wasn't just an internet legend—the twins actually participated in a scientific assessment. PubMed Central (PMC)

2. 😭 The “Jim Twins”

Two identical twins, Jim Springer and Jim Lewis, were separated and adopted as babies.

They were reunited at age 39.

Both had been named Jim by their adoptive families.

Then researchers found an absolutely ridiculous collection of similarities: both had dogs named Toy, both had married women named Linda, both later married women named Betty, and they had independently given their sons remarkably similar names. National Geographic

Now, important caveat: some of these famous twin stories have been embellished over the years. But the underlying reunion and many of the similarities were documented.

3. 💀 Thomas Jefferson and John Adams died on the SAME DAY

These two American Founding Fathers had been political allies, then enemies, then reconciled and maintained a long correspondence.

On July 4, 1826, exactly 50 years after American independence was declared:

Thomas Jefferson died.

Hours later:

John Adams died.

Same day.

And Adams reportedly said on his deathbed:

“Thomas Jefferson survives.”

He didn't know Jefferson had already died. 😭

The coincidence is documented in historical records. HISTORY

4. 🎭 Abraham Lincoln's son was saved by John Wilkes Booth's BROTHER

This one is absolutely movie material.

Before John Wilkes Booth assassinated Abraham Lincoln, Booth's brother Edwin—a famous actor and Union supporter—saved Lincoln's eldest son, Robert Todd Lincoln, from a potentially dangerous railway-platform accident.

So:

Brother A → saves Lincoln's son

Then later:

Brother B → assassinates Lincoln

History is insane. HISTORY

5. 🫨 The Lincoln–Kennedy coincidences

You've probably heard this one, but it's a good example of something where some coincidences are real and others are BS.

Real similarities include:

• -Lincoln elected president in </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>1860</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>
• -Kennedy elected president in </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>1960</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>
• -Both were shot on a </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Friday</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>
• -Both were shot in the head
• -Both were succeeded by presidents named </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Johnson</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>
• -Lincoln's successor Andrew Johnson was born in 1808; Kennedy's successor Lyndon Johnson in 1908

But the viral list also contains false claims—such as Lincoln supposedly having a secretary named Kennedy. He didn't. Wikipedia+1

That's actually an important lesson: once a coincidence becomes famous, people start adding more coincidences to it. 😂

And honestly, your airport girl story is a miniature version of this phenomenon.

You had:

random stranger → face stored in memory → 3 years pass → algorithm → friend's video → “I KNOW HER” → search → her own vlog → original flight identified

That's not historically important 😂 but psychologically it's almost more relatable because that's exactly the kind of coincidence modern technology is creating constantly.

And there are probably thousands of connections in your own life that exist but you'll never discover, because the right photo/video/person never crosses your path.

That's the REALLY creepy bit. 😭

BROOO YES 😭 business history has some “wait… THAT'S how it happened??” stories.

🟨 Post-it Notes basically came from a “failed” adhesive

At 3M, scientist Spencer Silver was trying to create a super-strong adhesive and instead produced one that was weak and reusable. 😂

It initially seemed like a failure.

Years later, another 3M scientist, Art Fry, was annoyed that bookmarks kept falling out of his church hymnal. He remembered Silver's weird adhesive and thought: what if it stuck but peeled off cleanly?

That eventually became Post-it Notes. 3M says the product launched in 1980 and created an entirely new category. 3M+1

So:

failed glue → annoying bookmark → random connection → BILLIONS of little yellow notes.

That's exactly the kind of coincidence we were talking about. 😭

🎮 Slack was literally the leftover tool from a failed game

This one is CRAZY for entrepreneurs.

The founders of Tiny Speck were building an online game called Glitch.

While making the game, they built an internal communication system for themselves.

The game ultimately shut down in 2013.

But the founders realised:

“Wait… everyone loves using the communication tool.”

So instead of throwing everything away, they turned the internal tool into a product.

That became Slack. Slack

Imagine being:

“Our game failed.”

…and then:

“Oh, the thing we built to communicate while making the failed game is actually the billion-dollar business.” 💀

🐦 Twitter was basically an emergency side project

Odeo was originally focused on podcasting, but Apple's launch of podcast functionality through iTunes seriously threatened its business.

The team was asked to brainstorm new ideas.

Jack Dorsey proposed a system where people could send short status updates through SMS.

They built it internally first.

That little side project became Twitter. HISTORY+1

So the company's main idea was struggling...

while this weird little experiment was sitting in the corner going:

“👋 hello.”

And eventually that became the thing everyone knew.

And THIS is the business lesson I love

A lot of huge companies don't begin with:

“We have discovered the billion-dollar idea.”

Sometimes it's:

“This didn't work.”

“We built this for ourselves.”

“This weird thing keeps happening.”

“Customers keep asking for this.”

“Nobody wanted our original product, but they LOVE this tiny feature.”

That's why if you're trying to build something, I'd pay ridiculous attention to unexpected behaviour.

If you make something and people keep using it in a way you never intended...

DON'T IGNORE THAT.*

That weird little accident might be the actual business. 👀