Hajj and Umrah

A Gentle Reminder to Our Muslim Sisters 🌙

As Muslim women, we do not need to announce to the world how many piercings we have, nor do we need to display every adornment for the eyes of strangers.

Sister, your beauty is not public property.

If you wear a nose ring or beautiful jewellery, remember that adornment is not something to be deliberately displayed before non-mahram men. And if you wear an anklet, make sure it is properly covered and that you do not deliberately walk in a way that draws attention to its sound.

Our deen teaches us haya (modesty), dignity, and self-respect. Allah says:

“And do not display yourselves as was the display of the former times of ignorance.”

— Qur’an 33:33

This is not about humiliating women or judging someone's entire faith because of one mistake. It is a reminder from one Muslim to another: do not allow the dunya to convince you that every form of attention is an achievement.

Likes disappear.
Followers disappear.
Trends disappear.
But what we do for Allah remains.

Your adornment does not need the approval of strangers. Protect your beauty, protect your haya, and protect what Allah has entrusted to you.

And to those of us giving reminders: let us speak with wisdom, mercy, and good character—not arrogance or condemnation. We are all servants of Allah and all in need of His forgiveness.

May Allah grant our mothers, aunts, sisters, daughters, and wives haya, wisdom, dignity, and beautiful character.

May He protect our hearts from the temptations of the dunya and make our adornment a source of joy within halal boundaries, not a means of seeking attention from strangers.

Ameen. 🤲🏽

Most Muslim weddings are closer to Hinduism than Islam.

Let’s be honest:

most ‘Muslim’ weddings today are a mix of Bollywood, jahiliyyah, and outright disobedience.

You say bismillah, hire an imam, throw in a Qur’an recitation…

Then the rest of the night is music, intermixing, make-up caked brides, and men dancing like fools in front of women.

And you call that a nikah?

It’s not Islamic.

It’s a desi-Hindu culture remix with an Islamic label slapped on it.

– You delayed the marriage for months just to save up for a photoshoot.

– You rejected a righteous brother because he couldn’t afford a venue.

– You spent $50K on a reception where Allah’s name was not remembered once.

– The bride wore a backless dress and the groom said “mā shā’ Allah.”

– The playlist had more haram than the wedding had tawheed.

Tell me—where in the Sunnah was the Prophet ﷺ dancing at 2AM while women clapped and screamed?

Let’s call it what it is:

You didn’t want a Sunnah wedding. You wanted a performance.

You wanted Instagram posts, reels, and attention.

And now you expect barakah in a marriage that started with music, free-mixing, and disobedience?

🗣️🗣️ Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said:,🗣️🗣️

“The more a marriage begins with righteousness and taqwa, the more likely it is to be blessed.”

So why are you surprised when your marriage is falling apart?

You started it in the company of shayṭān. What did you expect?

Islamic marriage is simple, modest, and full of barakah.

But most people today would be ashamed to have a wedding like Fāṭimah and ʿAlī عليهم السلام because it wouldn’t “go viral.”

This isn’t just culture it’s rebellion.

And it’s time we stop being shy to say it:

If your wedding looked more like a Hindu ceremony than a Sunnah gathering, don’t expect a reward—expect repentance.

Faatimah رضى ألله عنها wanted to be buried at night so non mahram men dont witness it.

What are our Muslim Hijabi sisters doing on Tiktok, FB and Instagram? Etc

May Allah Ta'ala guide our sisters to have Haya!

#Reminder

Dear Muslims,

Stop bringing other people’s private life up for discussion, just for the fun of it.

Someone you’re mocking today, is someone’s future parent & presently someone’s son/daughter.

How will you feel if someone brings up your mum/dad/sister/brother?

Be careful.

Can you give Sadaqah (charity) while you have overdue debt?
Your generosity should not come from money already owed to someone else. Pay the overdue debt first.

You asked Allah for an opportunity, and suddenly it asks more from you than you expected. You prayed for change, and now you're being pushed outside everything familiar. You asked for a relationship that would help you grow, and instead of making life easier, it exposes the parts of you that still need work.

It can be confusing when the answer to a dua comes with responsibility, discomfort, and growth.

People don't pretend to be depressed,
They pretend to be fine🥺
They smile, talk, and perform daily tasks, but they are not necessarily as healthy on the inside as they appear on the outside😓
So, treat those around you with kindness and compassion. Don't be quick to judge someone when they become quiet, change, or isolate themselves😢
Because not every face tells its whole story and every person may be going through some kind of difficulty that you may not even realize🥺
Sometimes a few kind words from you, a little attention, and listening to someone without judgment can be a huge help to that person💙✌️

I don’t know what’s wrong with me anymore 😂💔 I’m 6'2"—not 8 feet tall! But apparently even my height is a problem now. 😭😂 Then they hear I’m Pashtun and say, “Oh… that makes it even harder.” 😭

Bas ab kya karun? Height kaat nahi sakta, Pashtun hona change nahi kar sakta… aur dil bhi roz keh raha hai: “Bhai, shaadi kab hogi?” 😂💔

Maybe one day someone will look past my height, my background, and everything else—and simply say, “Yes, this is the man I was waiting for.” ❤️🥺

"wen the replacement from God arrives, u'll forget what you lost."