Mental health

I'm not looking for perfection.
I'm praying for a partner who chooses Allah first, and us second. 🤍

My tired self has so much to do. Let's see if I can manage it.

Wealth doesn't create intelligence, and living in a highly advanced society doesn't guarantee wisdom.

One thing I've learned from living in Quetta is that finding people who truly value deep thinking, sincerity, and growth isn't always easy. Sometimes there can be an intellectual gap, and it may feel difficult to find people who are on a similar wavelength.

But that doesn't mean they don't exist.

Keep searching. Keep making dua. Keep becoming the kind of person you're hoping to meet.

In the meantime, invest in yourself. Learn continuously. Prepare for life's challenges—and more importantly, prepare for the Hereafter.

Over the past year, I've spent a lot of time learning about healthy marriages and relationships. One lesson that stands out is that love and compromise are not the same. A strong relationship needs both, guided by good character, emotional maturity, and shared values.

My goal isn't to find a perfect person. It's to build, with Allah's help, a home filled with peace, mercy, respect, and growth.

And if the worst that happens is that I remain alone for a while, then so be it. Solitude is better than rushing into the wrong relationship. My hope is in Allah, not in people.

Stay strong. Trust Allah's plan. Trust the process.

Allah first. Always.Wealth doesn't create intelligence, and living in a highly advanced society doesn't guarantee wisdom.

One thing I've learned from living in Quetta is that finding people who truly value deep thinking, sincerity, and growth isn't always easy. Sometimes there can be an intellectual gap, and it may feel difficult to find people who are on a similar wavelength.

But that doesn't mean they don't exist.

Keep searching. Keep making dua. Keep becoming the kind of person you're hoping to meet.

In the meantime, invest in yourself. Learn continuously. Prepare for life's challenges—and more importantly, prepare for the Hereafter.

And if the worst that happens is that I remain alone for a while, then so be it. Solitude is better than surrounding yourself with people who pull you away from your values. My hope remains with Allah, not with people.

learning couple relationships for almost one year, people don't realise the difference between love and compromise because they don't have basic ethics and emotional intelligence. i just wanted to apply my learning and make my home the most peaceful one with Allah help.

Stay strong. Trust Allah's plan. Trust the process.

Allah first. Always.

Any one here

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barahkatuh 😊
Bismillah

Only certain Women can understand 😉

When a woman learns how to be completely happy all by herself, she becomes absolutely unstoppable.

A weak man often relies on a woman's fear of being alone so he can safely play his silly games and bring heavy chaos into her life.

But a confident woman with a pure heart is never afraid of the deep silence. She actually enjoys eating alone and spending time in her safe space, because it is so much better than dealing with his completely unnecessary drama.

She fully knows her high value, which means losing fake friends or facing basic rejection does not drain her beautiful energy. She clearly understands that not everyone deserves a seat in her peaceful home.

If people refuse to take real relationship accountability or show her genuine respect, she does not waste her precious time begging them to stay. She simply sees their exit as a beautiful chance to clear out the toxic noise.

A weak man simply cannot control a woman who is completely willing to leave. The very second he uses lazy excuses or disrespects her firm boundaries, she does not argue or try to fix his broken character.

She will simply pack up her pure loyalty, fiercely protect her quiet peace, and gracefully walk away. You can absolutely never break a strong woman who has already built a beautiful, secure life that relies on absolutely no one but herself.

Sometimes we spend so much time thinking about what we don't have that we forget the biggest blessing we already have.

This morning, you woke up.
You opened your eyes.
You took a breath.

And maybe that's the first thing we should be grateful for.

Not everyone gets another chance to see a new day. But we did. So no matter how heavy life feels, breathing is already a sign that Allah has given us another opportunity to try again, to do better, and to get closer to Him.

What's one simple blessing you're grateful for today? 🌿

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Appreciate yourself. You've done a lot of good things.

No, I'm not okay.
I miss talking to you. I miss our conversations. I miss your voice. I miss your laugh.
I miss how we used to talk every minute of every day.
I miss your daily rants about how your night went.
I miss the way you treated me when we first started talking.
I just miss you..