Mental health

Wahb bin Munabbih (رحمه الله) says:

The example of a bachelor (unmarried young man) is like a tree standing in a barren, waterless and grassless land, which the wind keeps blowing to and fro (from one side to another).!!

(Musannaf Abdur Razzaq, Hadith No. 10386)

Peace comes when you realize that everything that's out of your control should be completely out of your mind too...

Acceptance is part of faith.
Some things are delayed not to hurt you,
but to guide your heart back to Allah at the right time... 🙂

Why do I feel stagnant?
I dont feel I have achieve anything
Yet I dont think I've tried to do something

Bismillah

Unpopular truth: some men will lose the woman who loved them the most simply because they were too busy running from accountability. Instead of fixing their problems, healing their trauma, or becoming emotionally mature, they push away the one person who genuinely cared. And by the time they realize her value, she's already emotionally exhausted.

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barahkatuh 😊
Agree To Disagree

Bismillah

You cannot repair a relationship with someone who insists the real problem is always your reaction, never their behavior.

Because no matter how calmly you explain yourself… no matter how much you try to communicate, forgive, understand, or fix things… they will always twist the situation to avoid accountability. Every tear becomes “too emotional.” Every boundary becomes “an attitude.” Every hurt feeling becomes “you overreacting” instead of them admitting the damage they caused.

That kind of relationship slowly drains you. Not because you’re difficult to love, but because you’re constantly being blamed for responding to disrespect, dishonesty, neglect, or emotional pain. They focus so hard on how you reacted that they completely ignore what pushed you to that point in the first place.

And after a while, you start questioning yourself. You start apologizing for things you shouldn’t even be sorry for. You begin shrinking your feelings just to keep the peace. You stay quiet to avoid arguments. You carry the weight of fixing everything while they carry none of the responsibility.

But healthy love doesn’t work like that.

A real relationship requires two people willing to reflect, communicate, and take accountability. One person cannot heal a connection while the other refuses to acknowledge their actions. You cannot build trust with someone who turns every conversation into your fault. And you cannot heal beside someone who keeps hurting you and then criticizes the way you bleed.

Eventually you realize the issue was never that you cared too much, reacted too deeply, or loved too hard. The issue was being with someone who wanted understanding from you while giving none in return.

And the moment you stop blaming yourself for reacting to repeated pain… is the moment you start healing.

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barahkatuh

I am wounded deeply wounded. Yaa Allah im a human with feelings.
Allah i can’t do this life anymore
Yaa Allah I asked you, begged you prayed to you cried to you to fill my heart with your love so completely that there would be no room for anyone else.

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Do you miss the person or just the attention they gave you?

Came to Muzz out of curiosity, instead of a potential, all i got was fans.