Mental health

Bismillah

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barahkatuh
Something to think about

To Each his own ya 😉

Every person we meet is fighting battles we cannot see.

We know our own shortcomings well enough. We know the sins we regret, the mistakes that keep us awake at night, the promises to Allah that we have broken and tried to rebuild. We know how much we need His mercy every single day.

So who are we to look down on someone else?

The person we judge today may spend the night in sincere tawbah and wake up more beloved to Allah than us. The one whose faults are visible may have a heart that is pure, while our own faults remain hidden only because Allah has covered them.

SubhanAllah, if Allah were to expose all our sins the way He exposes some of our blessings, how many of us would still feel qualified to judge others?

The truth is, we are all walking toward Allah with imperfections.

Some are struggling with sins we can see.
Others are struggling with sins we cannot.

Some have fallen publicly.
Others have fallen privately.

But every one of us is in need of the same thing: Allah’s mercy.

Perhaps the greatest sign of spiritual maturity is not seeing yourself as better than others, but seeing how desperately you need Allah despite all your efforts.

So instead of being occupied with the faults of people, let us be occupied with fixing our own hearts.

Because on the Day we stand before Allah, we will not be asked about the sins of others.

We will be asked about our own.

ADHD is not being able to do your own laundry for 2 weeks but helping a friend move an entire apartment in one day because external accountability activates your brain in ways personal responsibility does not.

Tell me a lie so beautiful it makes me forget the truth

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I'm a leaver.I will leave anything l don't like. Even if it’s lack of self-respect, efforts or attention. This goes for anything in life. I will literally walk away.

It takes a lot for some of us to really trust someone. If you promise to check in on someone, please do it. You might be their last hope at that lowest point.

Let them misunderstand you, don't rush to fix them. Let time answer, what you never needed to explain.

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What’s your worst habit during arguments?