Mental health

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Let’s stop calling it just "mommy issues" or "daddy issues" and call it what it actually is: outsourcing our unhealed childhood wounds to our romantic partners.

When we carry the pain of an absent parent, or the deep grief of a parent we deeply miss, our subconscious mind plays a trick on us. We enter the dating market claiming we want a partner, but we are actually hunting for a surrogate "Mama" or "Baba." We want someone to unconditionally reparent us, rescue us, or fill a void that no adult partner is equipped to handle.

But here is the hard truth: Your partner cannot be your parent.

When you expect a partner to heal your childhood trauma, you set the relationship up to fail.
You are not looking for a "safe space" to grow; you are looking for an emotional caretaker to rescue you.
Real love requires two functional peers. An equal partner, not a therapist, and certainly not a substitute parent.

Stop looking for the parent you lost or missed in the person you are trying to build a future with. Heal your own inner child so you can actually see your partner for who they are—not who you need them to replace.

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خلينا نتكلم بصراحة ومن غير لَف ودوران: اللي بنسميه "Mommy & Daddy issues" هو في الحقيقة محاولة لتعويض غياب أو فقدان الأب والأم في شريك حياتنا.

لما بنعيش بوجع غياب حد من أهالينا، أو حتى لو عايشين صدمة فقدان أب أو أم بنحبهم وواحشينا جداً، الـ subconscious بتاعنا بيلعب معانا لعبة خبيثة. بننزل الـ dating market وبنقول إننا بندور على شريك حياة، بس في الحقيقة إحنا بنبقى بندور على "ماما" أو "بابا" اللي ملحقناش نشبع منهم أو اللي وحشونا ومحتاجين لوجودهم.

الـ Hard truth اللي لازم نواجهها: شريك حياتك مش بابا ولا ماما، وعمره ما هيكون.

لما بتطلب من شريكك إنه يعملك "reparenting" ويعوضك عن صدمات طفولتك، إنت كده بتبوظ العلاقة بإيدك وتظلم نفسك وتظلمه معاك.
إنت هنا مش بتدور على شريك متساوي معاك يبني معاك "safe space" حقيقي؛ إنت بتدور على كفيل عاطفي يشيل شيلتك ويداوي جروح مش بتاعته.
العلاقة الصحية محتاجة شخصين ناضجين واخدين بالهم من نفسهم، مش طفل بيدور على حد يتبناه عاطفياً.

بطل تدور على بابا أو ماما اللي ناقصينك في الشخص اللي بتبني معاه مستقبلك. داوي جروح طفولتك وواجه الـ attachment wounds بتاعتك بنفسك، عشان تقدر تشوف شريكك على حقيقته كـ partner بجد—مش كمجرد بديل للي فاتك.

Health is precisely a state of complete physical, mental and social well being not just absence of a disease.....don't ignore your mental health thinking that your healthy your not fine ..a healthy body with a tired mind is still not healthy...check on both sides..Thankyou

Choose to live with a pure heart and sincere intentions.

Who are u to judge others😒 Be mindful of ur words… Some can take it while some can’t… just be nice🤷🏼‍♀️

My doctor rold me yesterday to do a thing that I really love everyday to face depression.
So I want to share 100 days of challenge starting from yesterday. I encouragw you to start the challenge with me.
=> yesterday I took a shower and styled my hair.
=> today I will inshallah clean deeply my face and body.
Let's do challange together.

I’m almost giving up on this app; it’s just so stressful. Am I the only one who feels this way? It seems like guys move on to other girls so quickly because there are so many options.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1J7V5jtEHn/

Ya Allah, I need You. Please kindly bestow on me 500,000 NGN

It’s for my Samsung Galaxy Tab S9 Fe at 450,000 NGN and the balance is for the Tab accessories (pouch, wireless earbuds etc), Hair maintenance and logistics. It might not even be enough but I trust you to make it work.

I’m on the right path and things are moving in my Favour. Thank you for always being there for me. You alone I worship and You alone I ask for help. Muchas Gracias Mi Dios

Gents ( as baby as 22 years old sometimes) DMing a woman who could be their grand mother that they are subxxxmisxxxxive and offering whatever!!!!!.... on an app that stresses halal behaviour!!! Whyyyy????
There aren't enough admins to monitor these insects!!!!!

God, please help!
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