Malays

I'm at a point in my life where I'm only interested in someone I can genuinely date with marriage in mind. I'm not looking for someone to simply pass time with, entertain me when they're bored, or give me attention without knowing what they actually want.

Kalau you're still nak main-main, suka situationship, suka bagi mixed signals, or you're the type yang "tengok dulu macam mana" without any real intention, then I'm probably not the person you're looking for, don't waste my time.

I've outgrown the phase of dating just for the sake of having someone. I want to know someone with a clear intention, proper communication, consistency, and the willingness to actually build something. I'm not asking you to promise marriage on the first day we meet, but at least know what you're looking for and be honest about it

I want something that has direction. Kalau kita get to know each other and things work out, then we move forward properly. Kalau tak, we part ways respectfully. Simple,I'm not interested in chasing someone, convincing someone to choose me, or constantly questioning where I stand in someone's life. I've learned that when someone genuinely wants you, you won't have to beg for clarity or basic effort.

So kalau niat you masih nak main-main, please...main jauh-jauh. I'm too grown to entertain things that don't have a purpose anymore.
I'm looking for someone who comes with intention, not confusion.

Someone who knows what he wants, knows how to communicate, and is actually ready to build towards something halal.
Because at this stage, I don't want to just be someone's girlfriend. I want to be someone's potential wife.

Just curious. Has anyone had issues dating to marry as a Malaysian American?

I moved here when I was 5 and turning 35 this year.
Not the most practicing Muslim and there aren’t many Malays or even Muslim Asians in proximity that I’d be interested in.

I have a type where it’s usually Asian Americans because that’s where my values align. It’s difficult for me to see with someone that’s only just Malay and hard for me to see myself with American since I was raised to be more relational.

there's a version of me that comes out only when i'm mad... and honestly, she terrifies me. the moment anger hits, all my softness disappears. suddenly i'm bold, i'm blunt, and i'm ready to cut people off like they were never in my story. no shaking, no second-guessing, just pure, dangerous clarity. because when i'm mad, i don't just speak my mind...i speak every truth i kept tucked away out of kindness. and that's the part that ruins
-people. the scary part is, it might ruin me too, and even then, i still wouldn't blink.

Hi, I’m turning 30 this year. I’m looking for a serious taaruf with the intention of getting married and building a life together that leads us to Jannah, inshaAllah. 🤍

Oh, and I’m Sarawakian.

Text dryer with 2/10 face … what drugs do you take?? Let me have sum.

Hye

What are the things that make a man unmatches?

I néed someone that can teach me Malay 🥺

If only you knows what Allah has done for you? It’s high time to praise him all the time