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Assalam & Hello. My first post here.

I have been here on and off again. The first time I was here, I was full of hope. Like you sisters, I pun teruja dan berharap bila dah dapat calon yang agak sesuai. But then, exactly. I was ghosted.. ignored and then the cycle starts again. Kena mula balik chat dari zero...lama² rasa bosan dan surely bad for my self motivation. That was why I stepped out. Then I got bored and join balik haha.

Truth is, after I have read many of my lovely sisters' posts here lamenting about the frustration... It boils down to - Belum ada jodoh sisters. Hati manusia tu 100% milik Allah. Selagi Allah belum izin, cinta tulus ikhlas kita tidak akan berbalas. Kenapa kenapa kenapa kenapa.. this that here there everywhere tetaplah jawapannya sebab Allah belum bagi terbuka hati dia. Biarlah cantik mana pun, kerja stabil, body seksi vs muka awam kerja sendu tapi kalau Allah dah buka hati insan berdua untuk terima, maka berjodohlah!

Beauty is indeed, in the eyes of the beholder bila Allah buka hati mereka. Bertabahlah kita semua menanti jodoh kita ya dan tepis sume scammers and laki acah acah interested tu. Love all my sisters.

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How to start a chat with the person when someone likes you ?

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Hello! 👋🏼

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Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh my brothers and sisters.

My name is Thierno Abdoullaye Diallo ,25 yeare-olde ,from Conakry, Guinea.
Allah says "His earth is vast "so I believe in starting fresh, no matter the distance.
I am seeking a pious wife of Any nationality.
Malaysian, Indonesian, Arab...Nationality does not matter to me .
What matters is Deen and good character. I want to build a home for the sake of Allah, based on tagwa, respect, and the Sunnah of our prophet صلىالله عليه وسلم.
I am serious about marriage, InshaAllah.
I value honesty, patience,and fears of Allah above everything. May Allah make it easy for all of us singles and grant us righteous spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes.Ameen.

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Time to gym

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Assalamualaikum,

As a new user, I am wondering how to ask the person we are matched to, to go out in a date. I mean halal date.

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13 days ago

Assalamu Alaikum, this is just my personal opinion and experience, so please don’t take it the wrong way. On this platform, many people write beautiful words and impressive claims in their bios, but after a few minutes of conversation, the reality often turns out to be quite different. Sincerity, honesty, and seriousness are not proven by words; they are reflected through actions and character.Unfortunately, it sometimes feels as though many people are here merely to pass the time, which makes it difficult for genuinely sincere individuals to find a meaningful and lasting connection. Nevertheless, I still believe that there are good-hearted people out there, and I pray that everyone finds a partner who is truthful, loyal, and sincere. “Relationships are not built on attractive words, but on honesty, loyalty, and genuine intentions.” May Allah bless us all with sincere, trustworthy, and righteous companions. Ameen. 🤲

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Greetings.. Aidiladha as a lesson of sacrifice..for myself..just follow the journey of life..even without accompaniment..

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