Ramadan

Give wives the right to dissent and advice!

Some men are very selfish, they are not ready to give anyone the right to dissent and do not consider it necessary to seek advice from anyone. Such people consider themselves to be the wisest and do not give any importance to their wife's opinion. They do their own thing in every matter and enforce dictatorship in the house.

This behavior is also contrary to a happy environment, while a happy environment is very important for a happy family life, and this can only happen if a man considers his wife to be the second wheel of life, as she really is, and takes her into confidence in every important matter and arranges for consultation with her, listens to her arguments and conveys his arguments to her, in this way all aspects of the issue under discussion will come to light, in the light of which it will be easier to make a better decision.

The following hadith gives us a lot of guidance in this regard.
Hazrat Umar Farooq (may Allah be pleased with him) says: “By Allah! During the time of ignorance, we did not give any importance to women, until Allah Almighty revealed the same commands regarding them that Islam has given regarding women. And He gave them many concessions, which created trust and a sense of disagreement in domestic matters. The result of this was that once I was ordering my wife to do something, and she disagreed with me and said, "It would be better if you did it this way." I said to her: What right do you have to interfere in my affairs? And why do you disobey my orders? She said to me: Ibn al-Khattab! I am surprised at you, you want your words not to be discussed and debated, although your daughter (Umm al-Mu'minin Hafsa (may Allah be pleased with her) used to argue and debate with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of which sometimes the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would be angry with her all day long. (Sahih Bukhari, Book of Tafsir al-Quran, Chapter on Seeking the Pleasure of Your Wives)

The commandment of Islam to treat women with kindness and generosity has resulted in the awareness and confidence that has arisen within Muslim women, which the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) himself acted upon in the matter of his wives. A glimpse of this can be seen in the aforementioned hadith of Hazrat Umar Farooq (may Allah be pleased with him). This makes it clear that not giving importance to women and showing tyrannical opinions is completely wrong and against good manners and the example of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

Book: Rights of Women and Rights of Men
Author: Hafiz Salahuddin Yusuf (may Allah have mercy on him)

May Allah fulfil our halal desires.
Ameen...🤲🏻

Whats one question...

everyone should ask before saying yes to marriage?

At what point does "giving chances"

become "losing self respect"?

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Asbab & Tawakkul:

Without a doubt, Allah is the best planner, but Allah said (take action, make an effort, i’ll provide the means).

Have you people ever thought about those who are 28 to 35+ years old? If Allah grants health & life, how much longer are we going to live, maybe another 25 years or so? When will we get married? When ll the kids grow up? What ll the children’s future look like?

But no, both men & women are caught up in a race with each other, both are stuck in their own ego & pride, completely wasting their prime.

Literally ive read bios of some helpless women ages between 30 to 40 who blame their parents, saying, they’ve wasted our prime years, at this stage of life, we just want a serious man who can do nikkah within a month or so.

Allah has His ways to show you why you shouldn't quit.

Open to discuss about anything else, i just want to prove my English skill☺️

Hi,
I'm tired. I'm done. I'm sad. I'm hurt. 💔

Do not and I repeat do not let anyone make you believe you are a zero when you are a hero

What is ur main goal to be here? Only honest answers