Ramadan

Reminder to all my girlies to make up their missed Ramadan fasts during winter if you haven’t already!🤍🌙

(Literally a reminder to myself🤓)

Tahajjud will take you from “Ya Rabb, please” to “Alhamdulillah, Ya Rabb.”

If You don’t know what to ask Allah for today?

say:
“Ya Allah…

Fix what I cannot fix.
Heal what I cannot heal.
Guide me where I cannot find my way.
Protect me from what I cannot see.
Remove from my life what would have harmed me, even if my heart was attached to it.
Bring me what is good for my dunya and my akhirah, even if I never thought to ask for it. And never leave me to myself, not even for the blink of an eye.”

Ameen.❣

Your patience will never be lost & Allah hears your prayer☘

This happened to me, when an acquaintance was accepted to a job I applied ahead of time than him. And next thing I knew, he was already accepted, like my papers and name never existed in their office.

But like me, he had to wait for a long time as well, had to bear with patience, had to wait for every company to call him, had to go through months to survive, and on that specific day, it was written that his patience will ne beautifully compensated and that he will be accepted that day he passed his papers at the company.

And if you will ask me, I did wonder why I wasn't the one called or get accepted by them, I brought my papers earlier than him, maybe have the same qualifications as him, I was questioning everything because tha could've been me, but it wasn't...and suddenly A thought came to my mind to help me remember that maybe it wasnt for me, it wasn't written for me, or maybe I wanted it so much but I am not physically, emotionally, spiritually ready for it.

And in that moment, All I know is that what is meant for you does not leave — it waits for you to be ready. It waits for you to grow a little stronger, to heal a little deeper, and to trust a little more.

And that Nothing that Allah has written for you is ever truly lost. If it is meant for you, it will find its way back to you, in the right time, in the right way, and in a form that your heart can finally receive.

And I understand that we do not have to chase what slips away, because what belongs to you will always move toward you. We do not have to grieve what did not stay, because Allah knows when you are not yet ready to hold it. His timing is not late; it is perfect. His delays are not denials; they are preparations.

So if something returns to you — a hope, a person, a door you thought had closed — do not be afraid. It is not a coincidence. It is Allah circling back to you, reminding you that He does not forget what is yours.

And if something does not return, know that it was never meant to stay in the way you wanted it to. Allah will replace it with something better, something more suited for your peace, something that will come to you when you are ready to receive it.

Your heart’s desires are not wasted. Your patience is not in vain. What is meant for you will find you, and it will stay. ♡

May Allah grant us the patience to wait for what is meant for us, and the trust to accept what was never ours to keep. May He remind us that nothing meant for us is ever truly lost, and that His plans are always more beautiful than our hopes. May He give us eyes to see His gentle circling in our lives, and hearts that rest in His perfect timing. Allahumma Ameen 🥺🤲🏻

Reminder❣

Indeed 🤎

The lesson of Surah Al-Fil is that no army is powertul enough to overcome the will of Allah. What seems impossible to us is effortless for Him. Abraha came with an army and mighty elephants to destroy the Ka'bah, but Allah protected His Sacred House through means no one could have imagined.💝🤲

One of the most painful experiences is realizing that someone you loved, trusted, and felt safe with was also capable of hurting you deeply.

And when that person is family, the pain can be especially difficult to make sense of. You may find yourself questioning what you did wrong, replaying conversations, wondering how someone who knew your vulnerabilities could treat you that way. Sometimes, what hurts most isn’t only what happened, but the realization that the relationship you believed you had wasn’t what you thought it was.

Think about Prophet Yusuf عليه السلام. His own brothers plotted against him and placed him in a well, separating him from his beloved father. The betrayal came from within his own family (12:8-15). Yet his story did not end in that well.

Years later, after imprisonment and immense hardship, Allah granted Yusuf عليه السلام authority in Egypt. The very brothers who had wronged him eventually stood before him, unaware of who he was. And when the truth became known, Yusuf عليه السلام said, “No blame will there be upon you today” (12:92).

From a psychological perspective, betrayal can affect more than your feelings toward one person. It can change how safe you feel in relationships, how easily you trust, and how your nervous system responds to closeness. You may find yourself becoming guarded even around people who have never harmed you.

Healing can involve learning to recognize those protective responses without allowing past experiences to determine every future relationship.

And Yusuf’s story reminds us that what others have done to you does not have to define who you become. His forgiveness was part of his story, but it does not mean you must ignore harm, abandon boundaries, or reconcile before it is safe.

You can acknowledge the pain, protect yourself, and still work toward becoming someone whose life is not entirely shaped by what others.

You wanted it so badly. You prayed for it. You imagined your whole life around it.

And then it didn't happen.

Maybe the job went to someone else. Maybe the person walked away. Maybe the door simply closed, no matter how hard you pushed.

And Allah says:
"Perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know."

What you lost may have been protecting you from something you couldn't see.

Trust the One who sees the whole story. 🤍

Send this to someone who needs to hear it.

(Quran 2:216)