Ramadan

Hi

Hi

Thinking about how we’re
only 4 months away from
taraweeh nights, iftar, fasting
& tahajjud🤍.

Dear Sisters,

• It’s not Permissible for you to change Your Father’s name to Your Husband’s.

• In the name of Marriage.

• Stay with your Fathers’s name, that’s what the Qur’an Said.

• Forget about what majority are doing today,

You’re here to Please Allah.

🤲

About Graves in Islam

• It is prohibited to:

📌 Plaster or cement graves. (Sahih Muslim 970a)

📌 Build structures over graves. (Sahih Muslim 970a)

📌 Sit on graves. (Sahih Muslim 971a)

📌 Walk on graves. (Jamiʿ at-Tirmidhi 1052)

📌 Pray towards graves. (Sahih Muslim 972a)

📌 Write on graves. (Jamiʿ at-Tirmidhi 1052)

• Placing flowers, lighting candles, and decorating graves are not established as Sunnah practices.

• Travelling specifically to visit graves is a matter of scholarly disagreement; visiting graves itself is permitted. (Sahih Muslim 976)

Follow the Qur’an and authentic Sunnah, not cultural practices without evidence.

About graves?

• It’s not permissible to;📌

• -Cement it
• -Build on it
• -Decorate it
• -Sit on it
• -Walk on it
• -Pray on it
• -Stand on it
• -Place flowers on it
• -Lit a candle on it
• -Engrave on it names & dates
• -Travel just for the purpose of visiting it.

WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU THE TRUTH, YOU QUICKLY CALL THEM A HATER OR SAY THEY HAVE BAD BELLE.

Sometimes, the problem is not that people hate you. The problem is that you don't want to hear anything that challenges you.

This is why some of your friends no longer correct you. They notice your makeup, your outfit, your business decisions, your relationship choices, and the mistakes you keep making, but they remain silent.

Not because everything you do is right, but because they are tired of being misunderstood, insulted, or treated like enemies whenever they speak honestly.

So they watch you make the same mistakes. They smile with you, laugh with you, and tell you what you want to hear, even when they know you need sincere advice.

Remember, someone who always agrees with you is not necessarily your true friend, and someone who corrects you is not automatically your enemy.

A sincere friend should be able to tell you the truth respectfully, and a mature person should be willing to listen, reflect, and consider whether that advice is valid.

Of course, not every criticism is good advice. Some people genuinely have bad intentions, and others correct you with arrogance or disrespect. Learn to distinguish sincere advice from mockery.

But please, stop treating every correction as hatred.

Sometimes, the very truth that hurts your feelings today could save you from a bigger mistake tomorrow.

Learn to accept correction without losing your dignity. Learn to advise others without humiliating them. And never allow pride to make you reject something beneficial simply because you don't like the person who said it.

May Allah grant us sincere friends, humble hearts, wisdom to recognise good advice, and the courage to accept the truth even when it is uncomfortable.

Āmīn.

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Sisters,

when you go to the Masjid and you see a sister with figure hugging clothes, full on makeup, nails done etc, don't for a moment think that you're better than her just because you wear the correct Jilbab/Niqab.

Don't for a moment wonder why she's in the Masjid dressed up like that.

The Masjid does not belong to you. The Masjid is the House of Allah. EVERYONE is welcome. Pious ones, sinners, those seeking repentance or looking for a sense of direction.

Who are you to limit it to anyone?

Rather than eyeballing that "modern" sister, remember this could be the first time she came to the Masjid. She could've been at some haram place but she chose to come to the House of Allah for a reason. Or she could be a regular at the Masjid.

Or maybe she comes from a jahil (ignorant) family.

Maybe she's a revert, a sister just beginning her journey to Islam.

Maybe she hasn't even reverted yet but is learning about Islam & thinks this type of dressing is more befitting than being half naked.

Or maybe the sister knows all the rulings of Hijab but struggles in implementing them as she has weak Imaan.

Get up, leave your gang of Hijabi/Niqabi sisters. Make this sister feel welcome. Advise her in the BEST manner. Not in front of everyone.

Take her to a side so not to embarrass her and then advise her in private. Honour her. Don't humiliate her. Befriend her. Give her your number. Maybe all that sister needs is good company.

Remember Allah may forgive her for her sins but He won't forgive you for your arrogance.

Do not fall into the trap of Shaitaan and ever think you're better than anyone.

Hi assalamu alaikum "I will marry Manisha, love her a lot, and never break her trust."• Whether the girl is from a middle class or a high class, I do not want any money; I just want to get married."
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