Egypt

You will inspire some
and annoy others
Do it anyway..

Hi Everyone, I have a question.
If a man always takes 4-6 hours, 12 hours even sometimes to reply to you, he can stay days without texting but he is consistent in always coming back. Does that mean he is interested or not?
I know that not all men are the same and some just don’t use their phone that much, but i still can’t get past the fact that how can someone remain so calm and nonchalant especially in the early stages of talking?
Make it make sense

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I want to share a perspective I thought about today.

If you marry someone who isn't emotionally balanced, it can have a profound impact on both you and your children.

First, let me explain what I mean by "balanced."

To me, a balanced person knows how to find the middle ground between themselves and others. They know when to reflect on what people say and when to let it go. It reminds me of the prophet mohamed saying:

«"The best course in all matters is moderation."»

For example, imagine someone who is overly concerned about what others think of them. They fail to find the balance between reflection and detachment.

Reflection means taking a moment to consider someone's opinion and asking:

• -Does this align with my values and beliefs?
• -Will it help me become a better person?

If the answer is yes, then use it as an opportunity to grow.

Detachment, on the other hand, means recognizing that not every opinion deserves your attention. Sometimes it's okay to simply think, "I hear you, but I don't have to let your opinion control me."

This may sound like a small difference, but it affects lives more than we realize.

One of my friends has a husband who cares so much about what others think that he harshly punishes his children whenever they make a mistake—or even when they haven't done anything wrong—because he can't handle other people's criticism. Those children will likely grow up carrying emotional wounds, all because their father couldn't find that balance.

The opposite extreme is just as harmful. If someone spends too much time reflecting on every opinion and never learns to let things go, they end up blaming themselves for things that aren't their responsibility. They carry burdens that don't belong to them. Eventually, that pain either comes out on someone weaker than them or stays bottled up inside, affecting both their mental and physical health.

I hope we all learn to find that balance—the balance between ourselves and others.