Muslims in Australia

Why do guys switch up? If a woman liked you when you were making an effort, being respectful and you are portraying yourself as a practicing Muslim man, what makes you think she will still like you after you switch up your whole personality?

How to beat lust forever:

I beat lust by getting obssessed with getting a certin type of physique, every day i woke up I thought about only working on that goal,months passed by i gained the physique i wanted, i gained more confidence in myself and started believing in the fact that i can do anything and everything is possible with the help of allah,to be a good muslim it isnt just about 5 times prayer and modesty,physically challenging yourself everyday also plays a big part, our prophet mohammed pbuh was a very strong person and allah loves a strong believer over a weak believer as well, there is nothing but good from physical training of some kind, if you are not training then ull find it harder to be a muslim and cant beat things like Lust easily. Ill personally make all my children wrestlers so they never struggling with daily life stuff like I did. Indeed with hardship comes ease, and if you dont make your life hard yourself, your life will hard in otherways you dont want it to be.

Salam,
I was bit curious and a lil disappointed at the same time after having some interactions on this application. I do have a few questions though:

1. Why woman in the year 2026 still think that they have no financial responsibility in a relationship.
2. When a man earns, his mindset is to provide for the family. But when a woman earns, she just thinks about herself? Why is that, Why it is so difficult to contribute to a household?
3. Why do women donot want to grow together financially, emotionally, physically,.mentally with their better half? What's so difficult about it?
4. If not, what is actually the plan for being married? I mean I wanna make sense if there is any other perspective of marriage that I am missing.
   Not picking out any gender. Just wanna know, if I am missing any block of the puzzle.
   Thanks

Just an FYI, I see some men complaining they can’t find a wife….

1. They live in a share house.
2. They can’t afford or unwilling to pay for a place of their own.
3. Stingey with Mahr. Even when y’all know it will cost you at least $20,000 to marry back home and you don’t even want to give even a quarter of that to a woman here.
4. They think a woman asking for basic provision is a “gold digger” when this used to be what pretty much every husband provided for his wife.
5. They don’t even pray. Or basically not practicing at all.

These same men give up and get an arranged marriage. They suddenly can afford $30,000+ for a bride and proper home (or is it that family helped?). Then they complain when they have zero chemistry and their arranged bride was just using them.

Like what the heck is going on? And even when you find a financially capable guy, they are in other ways terrible like they just look at women as objects for their own desires. 😔

Before y’all complain about not getting married, try getting suitable housing, try praying and lowering your gaze, and try actually being willing to pay basic expenses associated with getting married and you will probably find someone. 💖

Sometimes Allah destroys your plans, before your plans destroy you.

"And Allah knows and you don't know" [2:216]

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My father once told me,

"Don't forget that the compass

was invented before the clock

because (direction is more important than time."

Life proved him right.