Muslims in Australia

Hey everyone,

A few weeks back, I meet someone on Muzz, and we been talking . I ended up deactivating my account, and so did he. He works in mining in WA, and he mentioned that when he returned home, he wanted to meet my dad because he’s serious about wanting to marry and have kids. He just got back from work yesterday for a week-long break, but since then, he hasn’t replied to any of my messages or spoken to me.

I’m feeling pretty uncertain now and wondering if I should just let it go. I really believed he could be the one. I haven’t told my parents about him yet because in the past, when I've talked about guys I’m interested in, it always seems to lead to disappointment when they ghost me. He wanted me to share about him with my parents, but I decided to wait until I felt confident about his commitment and he was ready to meet my dad. Honestly, I’m relieved I held off on telling them!

At this point, I’m considering giving up on this app and the whole idea of marriage. I’ve just reactivated the social section of Muzz but left my profile deactivated. What do you all think? Is this a red flag? We’re both divorced and don’t have kids.

When i open up my Instagram, I see more friendly content compared to when I swipe pass muzz for matches.

On the other hand, I hear sisters complaining about men approaching them for dirty stuff.

What has happened to the ummah. Even in a muslim majority, led by muslim platform, we fail to uphold our values. Why don't we people report and if so, why doesn't the platform moderators don't do anything about it!

To the “men” that claim they are serious intentional and ready for marriage but can’t even inform their own parents about the girl they have been speaking to for months, and worse mislead the girl by making it seem like he HAS spoken to his parents about her and offers timelines on when to meet up but in reality is talking ********, i sincerely hope you can grow up. The mark of a true man is someone who means what he says, a true “man of his word”. Don’t be talking ******** that “oh I spoke to my parents and they’re happy to meet next month etc” and make any excuse on the planet to delay and avoid to reach that point. I don’t understand how you can look yourself in the mirror and feel content with yourself. Maybe you can wear a mask and fool the rest of the world but that mask drops when you get close to people and I guess that explains why you’ve hopped from woman to woman over the past 8 years of searching for your life partner. Strings of 1-6 months of dating short enough to lead someone on till they’re fed up of the meaningless words but long enough to make your mask feel heavy. Allah will hold you accountable on the day of judgement.

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Hello

No matter how beautiful a face may be,if the heart is filled with envy and the habit of hurting others,its light will slowly fade away,,
But a woman with a gentle heart,a mature mind, and the wisdom to respect herself,will only grow more radiant with time,even as age gently touches her,,
So do not fear growing old💪🏻💪🏻🥰🥰

25Y Male. I can’t explain how many times I see some girl profiles appear on my Muzz multiple times all having “just joined” next to it. I get people want to refresh their profile but I’ve learnt myself that changing a few pics doesn’t actually help much anymore, in-fact the ones who did like you may stop since they’ve done it so many times and you never like them back 🤷‍♂️ you don’t rly have new people liking you 🙃

Eid Mubarak to all

⚠️ Reality check incoming – if you’re sensitive, maybe skip this one!

It’s honestly hilarious (and a bit sad) how some people swear they’re genuine in their relationships, promising they mean every word, but the moment real responsibility shows up, they vanish. Dodging, avoiding, doing all sorts of mental gymnastics to get out of it.

Case in point: my ex. There he is, floating around on the apps, liking and commenting on posts that have nothing to do with him, projecting this version of himself that isn’t real. And you can see it coming – he’ll thirst trap someone new into the same cycle.

Ladies, be careful. People are not always who they say they are. Some just want the attention, the ego boost, the feel-good vibes of being in a “relationship” – but they’re never truly interested in building something real, getting to know you deeply, or working towards that genuine partnership and marriage. They like the idea of love, not the commitment that comes with it.

Just a friendly reminder: protect your heart and energy✌️🕊️

Eid Mubarak everyone 🤍