Muslims in Canada

A PSA for the women

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  when you say "men aren't serious", understand the following

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  the men that meet your filters (height, physique, financial status, etc ...) have many many options both for short term and long term relationships

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  they aren't serious for you because they can get short term relationships with 0 commitment

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  some will commit of course as there are always exceptions

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  but most don't need too

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  the men that are normies and don't meet your filters are more likely to commit to marriage and provide security for you, but they do not meet your filters.

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  these normie men resort to commitment since they do not have the same aforementioned status as the high value men

So essentially....
If a guy had infinite options, rarely would he settle down and lock himself with one women (some exceptions exist of course). Most high value men will rather just sleep around. Hence the term "men aren't serious". Because they are the men you consider for dating. The normie men are more willing to commit since they lack such status but they aren't considered in your filter

Sometimes, all a person needs is someone who understands their silence, stays through the difficult days, and makes the good days feel even better. 🤍

Respect is a sign of humanity. 🤝
As a Muslim, I believe it is our responsibility to respect people of all religions. Loving and following your own faith is important, but respecting the beliefs and feelings of others is also a sign of a good human being.
We may have different beliefs, but there is no need for hatred. Let respect, kindness, tolerance, and humanity define us. ❤️
At the end of the day, we are all human. 🌍

I find talking and texting to a person for over a week boring yet u stay in the same city etc ,words and texts turn in to the same thing ,how are u ....... how was urday....how is work 🤔 to be honest all the necessary information u need to know about each other should be over in 2 days 🤔 then plan ur meeting the next day when u all off for work etc , u talk for amonth while she is still window shopping then boom unmatched ,thats y am going for physical dating muslim meetings next 😉

A genuine question for those who are sincerely looking for marriage:

In Islam, marriage isn’t just about finding someone to share a home with. It’s about finding sakinah (peace), mercy, companionship, responsibility, and someone who helps you become closer to Allah. 🤍

Besides religious practice, what quality do you think matters most in a future spouse for building a strong and peaceful marriage?

Is it communication, patience, emotional maturity, loyalty, family values, or being there for each other during difficult times?

I’d genuinely love to hear different perspectives. What do you think makes an Islamic marriage truly successful? 🤲

A genuine question for the sisters here:

When you’re looking for a husband, what makes you feel that a man is genuinely serious about marriage—not just saying the right things?

For me, I think consistency, honesty, emotional maturity and actually following through on your words matter more than big promises.

I’d genuinely like to hear different perspectives. What’s one quality or action that makes you think, “This person is actually serious”?

Looking for a loyal girl for marriage

There is a family of pakistanis going through the clothing donation drop off box🤦‍♂️ they've been there over 10 minutes now. Not even indians will do this

https://youtu.be/JEMj1jxUVNM?si=XG_9cRR5WT6DQcCh

Why is it that some guys are so comfortable having endless conversations over text but don’t actually make the effort to move things forward to a phone call? If you’re having deep conversations and getting to know someone with the intention of marriage, but aren’t willing to take that next simple step, it honestly just feels like you’re both wasting each other’s time. At some point, you have to actually see if there’s a connection beyond texting. And if that’s never the plan, pls stop wasting the other persons time.