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Shahbaaz Khan

@ShahbaazKhan23

8 days ago

This is so draining, a girl's mother is handling her account, I talk to aunty saying stuff like yeah I am cool if girl does a job after marriage as long as she's happy im happy but ofcourse we will have to share house responsibilities sometimes ill work sometimes she will work something like that since I dont want a maid in the house and I already cook for myself cuz meal prep protein tracking I measure my meals etc, and I asked her if she's okay with this ill send my biodata with my moms phone number

She says sorry we do not agree I mean that was okay but after that she goes on to say

"are you looking for a wife or a maid it would be better instead of marrying if you get a maid for you and your mother"

Wtf? There are so many ways to say no
idk I have been respectful but some people are so immature. Parents even!

My mom's doing the rishta search on other platforms and she has been dealing with these kinds of people as well it's some people from the older generation fr

Mostly the girls ive talked to here were respectful and mature and understanding, I don't let a convo go on for more than a week if we match parents get involved if its turning into a month long unpaid internship situationship I am out byebye

But **** like this from parents? And they say gen z doesn't respect people.

Tf did I say that was so triggering I genuinely asked if you are okay then we will move forward theres no reason to show how retarded you are.

Reason for my rant here is that once she sent that message she immediately unmatched when she saw me typing lord have mercy on our people

There's a mature way to deal with things and a childish way, I guess some people never grow up.

I am a person who wants to spend time with spouse teaching her to drive learning how to cook with her etc types but if we start taking things on ego then none of us can love eachother

This app will lowkey make me lose the spark in my eyes 😮‍💨
Instead of dreams of happy married life there will only remain nightmares of mother in laws involvement idk 😮‍💨

May Allah make rishta finding easier for us all ameen

I need some opinions from people
Please dont try raising clout or attacking either me or their family, lmk if something I said was wrong and im over reacting
or is it justified that they were so offended by things idk how's the situation in other households

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Omer

@omi0912

9 days ago

I think we have almost completely lost the concept of marrying for the sake of Allah (SWT). Nowadays, when people look for a spouse, they ask: How tall is he? How much money does he make? How beautiful is she? And what kind of lifestyle can he or she provide for me? While attraction, compatibility, and all of these things are important, they have now become the main focus. We have started treating marriage as a way to gain a better lifestyle rather than a path to Jannah. The Sahaba (RA) did not marry someone because they met all the worldly standards. They married because they wanted a partner who would bring them closer to Allah, help them obey Allah, wake them up for Fajr, remind them of Allah when they forgot, help them raise righteous children, and assist them on the path to Jannah. The problem is not that we want a good spouse. The problem is that we have made this dunya our destination and the akhirah an afterthought. But if your spouse brings you closer to Allah, then you have found something far more valuable than beauty, wealth, or status. Because the best marriage is not the one that gives you the best lifestyle. The best marriage is the one that helps you get closer to Jannah.

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Anonymous

9 days ago

Can anyone tell me the best night out places in Hyderabad for food?

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.r

@Queen19653803

10 days ago

I was born and brought up in Saudi. Looking for someone from Hyderabad settled abroad

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SAMEER

@namaazi

10 days ago
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Mohammad Sultan khan

@Khan56446864

11 days ago

Now I got understand waste of time here

No body is connecting here

I m 27 years research scholar + scientist in pharma if any body can mssg me

By the way I am male candidate

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Mohd Nausheed Ahmed

@MohammedNausheed

12 days ago

Asalamualikum, everyone. I am looking for a girl for marriage who is based in Hyderabad, India.

About me:
-26 years old working as a Mechanical Engineer in Saudi Arabia
-5’7 height with a fit physique

Requirement
-Age range of 22-24 years
-Height range of 5’3-5’5

  • -God-fearing nature and should be bold enough to put her point across.
    -Not necessarily beautiful but decent looking
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Sanam

@Sanam4939

14 days ago

Hii everyone! Any recommendations for good awadhi resturants in Hyderabad...

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Syed ibrahim

@SyedIbrahim59141814

14 days ago

It’s really hard to find a good match in Hyderabad.

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Tarannum Soban

@sayyada60765

15 days ago

Any work from home job opurtunities

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