Widowed Muslims
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Offer support, share stories, and nurture Islamic values to help you find strength and healing on your journey after loss. You're not alone in this path 💜🤲
If you're a true Muslim or Muslima. Dating shouldn't be a Chess game. It should be sincerity and transparency. So no one has to waste his/her time. Or invest unnecessary energy into the game. 😊
Assalamu Alaykum, everyone I am constantly being asked the same questions about my husband Saad’s passing. My beautiful husband fell into a coma on February 28, 2024. Saad remained in a coma until March 8, 2024
I made the hard decision of having his breathing tube removed. We all had a big birthday celebration for him in ICU on March 3.
A couple days after that he stopped breathing above the machine. The breathing machine was doing it for him. The light had left his face. He went to Paradise at 11:11 AM. He was tired and without the machine, he only lived a couple of minutes. 🤲 My heart is forever broken without Saad and I’m so lonely. 😔
Salaam everyone,
I wanted to share something from the heart, especially in a group like Widowed Muslims.
Sometimes, from the outside, people think that a widowed woman, divorced woman, separated woman, or single mother is “nothing” anymore. They look at her as if her value has reduced because life has tested her. They forget that behind her silence there is pain, behind her strength there are many tears, and behind her smile there is a heart that has survived so much.
Some men also have a very wrong way of thinking. They think a woman who is alone, with children or responsibilities, is desperate, weak, or easy to use. They think she will accept anything just because she needs love, attention, or support. They think they can come into her life, give a little sweetness, take what they want, and leave without responsibility.
But that is not the truth.
A widowed or single woman is not cheap. She is not weak. She is not a burden. She is not “less” than anyone. She is a woman who has carried pain, responsibilities, children, memories, and life’s tests with sabr. She may be tired, but she is still valuable. She may be lonely, but she still deserves respect. She may want love again, but she does not deserve to be used.
As Muslims, we should fear Allah in the way we treat people, especially those who are already carrying silent struggles. A kind heart is not something to take advantage of. A woman’s loneliness is not an invitation to disrespect her. Her past does not make her less worthy of a beautiful future.
Every widow, widower, divorced person, separated person, or single parent deserves kindness, dignity, sincerity, and halal love. We are not here to be judged by people. Allah knows our story, our pain, our intentions, and our strength.
May Allah protect every heart that has been broken, every woman who is rebuilding her life, every man who is silently struggling, and every parent carrying responsibilities alone.
May Allah replace our sadness with peace, our pain with healing, and our loneliness with good, sincere people who bring us closer to Him.
Ameen.
Many of us spend our days searching for happiness, only to realize that peace has become the rarest treasure of all 🙂
Your happiness means more to me than words can ever explain. 🌹
GOOD MORNING 💍
Desperation is rarely visible in words. It's visible in patterns.
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