Divorced Muslims
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Well...civil divorce...two days. Divorced islamically 2 years. Never felt more alone than now. And he doesn't want to share custody.-he wants me to take full financial care and see them when he feels like it. He wants me to lower the 150 child support to 100 for each of his 4 kids (600) while he makes 2800 per month. Pays 300 in rent. And I do everything else. He lives 3 minutes away. & Im American in france. Yet he still trys to push up. He trapped me here by using the kids as bait. Muslim men are looking like non muslims. Stressing. Smh
Assalamalaikum...everyone,
I wanted to share some thoughts on an important topic that affects many families today… the stigma n lower acceptance around divorce…
Divorce often happens not cuz someone wants to give up easily… but when two ppl have tried their best yet find they simply cannot adjust… communicate effectively… or maintain a healthy relationship together… It is a difficult decision n painful for everyone involved… However… in our society… both men n women who go thru divorce frequently face judgment… gossip… n challenges in social acceptance… Many families hesitate due to concerns abt “log kya kahenge” (what will people say)… n this social pressure often prevents ppl from choosing a path of peace n well-being…
If a man loves you more, he touches your feet.
And if a woman loves you more, she never lets you touch her feet.
Keep me close to you.
I am disgusted with everything except you.
Trembling of the body in battle is a sign of a powerful offspring of a noble family
What lessons from your past relationship do you think are most important for a stronger marriage in the future?
Marriage-focused and genuinely looking for a life partner.
I believe every experience in life can bring wisdom if we reflect on it properly. In marriage, emotional maturity, honesty, forgiveness, and clear communication matter a lot more than perfection. I’m hoping to build a peaceful and stable halal future with someone who values understanding, trust, and long-term commitment. May Allah guide us all to the right partner and bless us with ease after hardship.
I had told her that when I go to work she should play games enjoy and watch dramas watch YouTube visit her sister’s house or meet my family. But instead of playing games she started watching YouTube and dramas from morning until night She began believing everything she saw to be true and started behaving and talking exactly like those characters Things fell apart because of that Drama is fiction, but real life is reality Then one day we got divorced
What should we keep in mind to determine the views of any person and how should we determine them?