Divorced Muslims

Everyone revolves within the spheres of the 'attained' and the 'unattainable'—
The lack of appreciation for what is attained, and

The yearning for the unattainable—

It simply never ends.

need some serious connection anyone?

What does a happy marriage mean to you lady's?

I have not been on the dating scene very long, but I’m starting to understand why so many single Muslim women have stopped even trying to find a Muslim husband and instead have switched to regular dating sites and are now open to non- Muslim husbands.

It is such a shame. We have such high hopes from Muslim men, given that they should be the best of all men 💔

Recently someone (undisclosed) from this app had an intense pop at me for being 41 and proclaimed that me being a successful step-parent is not a big deal and that somewhat I’ve got average and nice-guy energy which will always get abused and taken advantage of by predatory females.

I was reading that pop shot with of curiosity, lo and behold my teenage step-daughter messages me. Ironic huh? She is a child from a previous relationship but we still talk, the two of them.

Her:
“Assalamu alaikum U.A. Hope you’re well inshallah? Little favour please 🐭
Can your old self, send me a list of ingredients you put into your red pasta sauce you used to make? Really need it and don’t wanna ask you know… psst your ex wife 🙈 and hers is not as good!”

Me:
“Hmmm, send me a £50 fee right now and I’ll make you a full walkthrough video with a PDF how to make it…how’s your maw?” Tell your biopops I’m gonna prank order 14 large dominos to his house one day, but not today”

“Don’t U dare lol 🤣 🐭 Cmooooooonnnnnn 😱 why U bein so mean bro? I really am hungry! Oh and by way, what’s the ☕️? U found a wife yet? U better tell me 🫩 so I can tell mum 💀. Mum still treats us like slaves 🙄😭😭 do U want mee to starve? 🥺 Allah is watching you bro 👀 “

Me:
Sent kiddo, good luck with the meal inshallah”

Her:
Faaaaaaaaaaanx 🐭✨✨
Assalamu alaikum bro, don’t message me, too many messages are not aesthetic for the thread 🫩”

I wonder if people actually know the meaning of step-parenting and do they have any clue as to how difficult and diligently diplomatic you must be to navigate relationships? Subhanallah some people clearly are not built with the correct software version to understand how life works. But then again what would I know? I’m just a loser nice guy with average all over him lol 🤣

I became quiet because I was tired of explaining pain to someone who kept causing it.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1HZd7KYwus/

Men, honest question 👀

What makes you genuinely want to get to know a woman beyond just looks?

1. Her personality
2. Her values
3. Her communication
4. Her confidence
5. The way she treats people

And what’s one green flag that instantly makes you think, “She’s different”? 💭

Tell me in the comments.

He said it’s not working out I don’t see a future with you but doesn’t want to issue the talak so what’s next?

Hi
My name is mushtaq ahmad from pakistan
Working hear ras al khaimah
27 year old
Sairas people massgae me