Divorced Muslims
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Some men say I'm too demanding. Some say I'm too impatient. Others say I'm expecting too much, considering my age and circumstances. Honestly, I don't know what it is that I'm doing wrong.
I don't approach men who have never been married, nor do I approach anyone younger than me. I usually look within a reasonable age gap of about 5–6 years. Yes, I'm 5'7", so I prefer someone who is at least 5'6". As for education, I've never judged anyone based on their academic background. I'm open to meeting someone from Bangladesh or abroad. In fact, I specifically prefer someone who already has a child, because I feel they would better understand my life and responsibilities as a single mother.
Yet somehow, finding someone who genuinely wants to build a family together still feels so difficult.
"It is difficult to purify the heart when it has become impure, because it is something unseen. Yet when it is unclean, it affects everything."
"Unlike dirt on our hands or clothes that we can easily see and wash away, the impurities of the heart—such as envy, pride, hatred, greed, or indifference—remain hidden. They grow slowly, often without us noticing, until they begin to show in how we speak, how we treat others, and even how we see Allah and His commands.
A pure heart is like clear water: it reflects truth and goodness. But when it becomes clouded, everything we perceive becomes distorted. Our actions, relationships, peace of mind, and even our prayers are all affected.
The good news is that even though it is unseen, the heart is not beyond repair. Just as we regularly bathe our bodies, we must regularly cleanse our hearts through sincere repentance, remembering Allah, forgiving others, and doing good deeds. It takes effort and awareness, but it is the most important purification we can ever do."
Is there any divorced lady I want to make a link with her and......❤️🩹
It maybe difficult finding the right person right now, insha'Allah if it's in my kismot she will arrive... Till then I have Moezza to keep me company. #Alhamdullilah
