Muslims in the UK
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Is it true every girl will have a past beyond 20? Can sisters help?
Do you invest your money?
If so, I'm interested to find out what?
Like gold, stocks, Gilts, Bonds, ETFs, NFTs, businesses via crowdfunding, etc.
My story: I want to share a serious warning for everyone to be extremely careful when considering marriage, especially in Bangladesh, India, or Pakistan. As someone born and raised in the UK and living with a rare disability, I went into this marriage hoping for a loyal partner. I made the mistake of getting married too quickly. My family warned me that she was bad news, but I didn’t listen because I was so blinded by love. I learned a brutal lesson about trust. She had no routine—she slept all day and was awake all night on social media. Even when I told her to sleep and fix her schedule, she wouldn't listen. She also disrespected my family. When I went back to the UK, she gave me her password just to trick me, and then immediately logged me off. I eventually found out that while I was in London, she was secretly talking to her ex behind my back. The betrayal was real, but in the end, I walked away the winner. I am free and back home living my life in the UK. My family feels sorry for me, but it is okay because I know they still love me and support me. Now, I am ready to move forward and get remarried soon, whether the person is in the UK or Bangladesh. But this time, things will be different. I am going to take my time, do a full background check on her entire family and her 'Bari' to make sure I know exactly who I am marrying. I won't make the same mistake twice. I am currently building my career to become a professional coach for Jiu-Jitsu, Judo, Wrestling, and Olympic weightlifting. I am working hard to secure my future and am looking for a serious, halal marriage with a sincere woman. Be safe, do your homework, take your time, and protect your heart.
Need some advice: I'm in a thankful position in my life where I can afford a really good house. Like buy that sh't outright, zero mortgage or anything. And I've always either wanted to buy a house with a wife or buy after marriage.
Marriage is a while away, Do I buy a house now?
But if I do, I'd be less interested in relocating for my wife.
And would be harder to find somewhere that matches what I have.
Or
Do I continue to wait to buy?
Keep stacking the cash and keep building.
Though alternatively, I could rent a nice place.
Found a cool spot on shaftebury Ave, 2 bed. £3k.
As well as a 3 bed house for £2.5k in Peckham.
But I'd be locked in for a good year or two if I do.