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Assalamualaikum
Would like some input from my fellow brothers and sisters if possible

I have been thinking a lot lately about things I didn't pay much attention before. I happen to come across many men who have been traumatised by their ex wife/partner, like outburst that came out of nowhere, wrongly accused of domestic violence, being deprived from seeing their own children etc. One case that I came accross, the man was hit by his partner with a glass bottle when he was asleep, and the woman called the police on him accusing him of domestic violence.. Generally speaking, when a woman made a claim of domestic violence or anything similar, most people immediately believe it, because women are seen to be weak in nature as compared to men. But I think it's fair to say women are very much capable of being manipulative and it's easier for women to fake the cry to gain sympathy etc from people. I have been watching a lot of crime documentary on murder cases that involved women, and in every case that I watched, all of these women would initially denied the allegations with tears etc.

On the other hand, we also cannot deny the real cases of domestic violence that involves men harming their wife/woman and these cases are very high in number statistically and i personally also went through this in my previous marriage.

Women who went through DV and men who have been falsely accused of DV and suffer the consequences like being arrested and charged etc both are very traumatising.

The questions that have been popping in my head a lot lately is, in searching for a spouse, how do we identify if the potential would carry trait that would cause such harm to ourselves like the above cases?

For brothers, how would you sift through your potential to make sure this person will not ruin your life in the future? If any of you have been falsely accused of DV, would you ever disclose this to a potential, if so why and if not why not? And if a potential/woman disclosed that she experienced DV in her previous marriage, would you be skeptical or have unsettled feelings?

And for sisters, what steps do you take to ensure your potential isn't a woman's beater? If your potential told you he was accused of DV before by his ex, would you be skeptical or what would you do to verify this information?

(I think the Clancy case got to me, and suddenly before I knew it I have all these questions lingering in my head somehow)

Hello everyone

Back to school and brain is deep fried already.

I literally feel like Road Runner speeding everywhere

asalamu alaikum.

y'all, can you please sign this petition please? 🙏

this mother is suffering and she will lose her son, if we dont help her. 😢💔 i cant imagine her pain... we need 100,000 signatures before two weeks so it can go to parliament, and the government will notice it. the NHS and ICB are worried about funds, more than the individual person. they took this to court. the son clearly has brain activity, and the mother is distraught. he still blinks, stick his tongue out, cries and breathes intentionally to signal he understands everything.

https://c.org/HM5bZJX7wj
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fahim rahman suffered a devastating brain injury after an accident in 2020, leaving him unable to speak for himself and completely dependent on others. now, his family is facing the unimaginable fear of losing him, after the court authorised the withdrawal of his clinically assisted nutrition and hydration. his mother is desperately fighting to protect her son and believes that vulnerable people like fahim deserve stronger safeguards, that every possible avenue of challenge must be explored, and that families must be properly heard when they are fighting to keep their loved one alive. fahim cannot speak for himself, so his family and everyone who cares about him must speak up for him now.

Please share the petition with family and friends as much as you can, guys!!

May Allah SWT make it easier for Farah, the mother, give her hidayaat, peace and all the help she needs. May Allah SWT grant Fahim shifa, help his family and make their situation better. Ameen.

Sometimes I feel like it’s better to move on than to keep holding on to someone who lies to you again and again.

You forgive them, give them another chance, and say, “Just don’t lie to me again.” They promise they won’t… but then they do the same thing all over again.

At some point, you start wondering whether you’re being understanding or just hurting yourself by staying.

How do you finally let go and move on from someone you still care about, when the trust is already broken?

Any thoughts or advice?

🤲🏻 A Prayer From a Heart That Has Waited
O Allah, my Most Merciful Lord,
You know every hidden pain within my heart. You know the years I have waited patiently, the prayers I whispered to You in the silence of the night with tears in my eyes, and the hopes that still remain alive within me
O Allah, if what my heart desires is good for me, open its doors for me and grant it to me with dignity, peace, and blessings. If its time has not yet come, grant me the patience to wait without losing hope. And if You have written something better for me, make my heart completely content with Your decree
O Allah, do not let me wait so long that my hope becomes weak. Bring peace to my heart, ease my affairs, increase my sustenance, turn my sadness into happiness, and place relief after every hardship
O Allah, if You have written a righteous spouse for me, bring them into my life at the most beautiful and perfect time. Let them be someone who brings peace to my heart, strengthens my faith, protects my dignity, and becomes a source of goodness for both my worldly life and my Hereafter
Ya Rabb, I am not depending on the doors of people. I have come to Your door.
I have placed my hope in You, so please do not let me leave disappointed.
“Hasbiyallahu la ilaha illa Huwa, ‘alayhi tawakkaltu wa Huwa Rabbul-‘Arshil-‘Azim.”
“Allah is sufficient for me. There is no deity except Him. Upon Him I have relied, and He is the Lord of the Mighty Throne.”
(Qur’an 9:129) 🕊️

Heyyy, recommend me a really good perfume 😂 I’ve tried so many, but somehow none of them have impressed me. At this point, I think my nose is more difficult to please than I am 🤣🤣

So, if you recommend a perfume and I actually like it… congratulations, you’re officially responsible for sending it to me 😂😂 Deal?

They say marriage completes half of your faith…
I’m ready to find that other half, but I don’t know why it still hasn’t found me!
Ya Allah, send someone into my life who understands my heart, can tolerate my jokes, and is willing to learn and build life together with me. 🤍😂🥰

Why are there anonymous posts? Doesn’t that kind of contradict the idea of a 'community'? Just wondering, thanks! ☺️