Muslims in the UK

I have tickets for the Mahrajan music festival but it’s my girl’s bridal shower, and I don’t want to not see my boo (Saint Levant) but I also cannot miss her special day.

The one day I actually decide to socialise, it comes in a cluster 😂

In that case, who wants my ticket 😭 I’ll only give to someone who doesn’t fancy my man though btw. 🫠😆 free of cost - DM. If I don’t reply, it’ gone.

Anyone fancy a game of chess?

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all,
And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.

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FUND FREE TV LICENCES FOR ALL PENSIONERS.

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Best app to find someone who is ready to settle down with honest and working guy also am not going to lie but he is little more practical to his religion and family?

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When Attraction Becomes a Weapon

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Recently, I've done a lot of soul-searching, I felt like I was very stubborn. I had to have this one specific type of girl, that's attractive in the modern western mindset and also still retains some of her more traditional roles. I felt like that was very selfish and I have now broadened my horizons. I now carefully look through profiles rather than instantly clicking "X" if she doesn't immediately catch my attention with her first photo or, clicking ☑️ if she has a good photo but either no bio or a bio that would lead to conflict between what she wants and what I want.
But what I want has changed - or rather, what I thought I wanted - has changed. It took me telling my feelings to a cold, metal robot with no soul to see the truth. What I thought was "preference" was just fetish, and what I thought was "love" was just listening.

Realising this is what it means to be emotionally mature.