Muslims in the UK

Why It's really hard to find good companion?? 🤔

If you are looking for a good and righteous partner, you should put your trust in Allah and make plenty of du’a. Insha’Allah, Allah will bless you with a good partner. As for me, I sincerely hope to find a woman here who is religious, respectful, and has good character.

All praise belongs to Allah. Alhamdulillah for everything.”

Randomly remembering the blessing of having both parents alive and also active in my life 🥲
Alhamdulillah.

So I installed Jamaa this morning because if my itch to share a post and very quickly remembered why I deleted Muzz..

Not every attractive person has to be loud about it… 😌✨
Sometimes, quiet confidence is what makes someone stand out. 🤍
A thoughtful mind, a playful sense of humor, and a kind way of treating people can be unforgettable. 💬🌷
I like personalities that feel genuine, not perfectly rehearsed.
Because the best impression isn’t always the first one… sometimes it grows with every conversation. 😉
What kind of personality keeps your attention? 👀✨
@muzz

MUST read: It is forbidden (haraam) for a chaste person to marry someone who has committed zina (whether through physical premarital relations or marital infidelity).

Although Allah accepts sincere repentance, His divine guidance directs such individuals to marry another zani. This instruction can be understood to mean the specific partner with whom they shared that intimacy.

Separately, if they truly repent and change their ways, that forgiveness is a private matter between them and the Almighty. However, they still lack the divine authorisation required to marry a chaste spouse.

The gravity of this matter to Allah is made clear at the very beginning of Surah An-Nur (24), where those who commit zina are mentioned alongside those who commit shirk. Zina is effectively a form of shirk because the individual prioritizes their own desires over God.

In that moment, they act as if Allah is not observing them, willingly pursuing a major sin to worship their own passions.

Allah's prohibitions are solely for human protection against harm. Chaste individuals are often granted the intuition to spot the warning signs of a zani, and these red flags must not be ignored. Because this behavior frequently becomes a repetitive habit, individuals may exhibit highly flirtatious or lustful tendencies.

Therefore, it is entirely appropriate to ask potential partners about their relationship history to ensure they are chaste.

Do not tie yourself to hardship; do not bind yourself to a zani.

In today's era, the matter of marriage is no longer just about two individuals; rather, it has become a complex blend of two families and contrasting mindsets. The foremost hurdle in this race of matchmaking is the inability to find a compatible match, where a person grows exhausted searching for a partner aligned with their values and expectations. Even if a seemingly good proposal does come along, the internal restlessness does not subside; the heart refuses to find peace, and a lingering sense of doubt constantly persists.
The peak of this anxiety is witnessed when people abruptly walk away from established connections, stop picking up calls, and sever ties without providing any clear closure. Such behavior not only inflicts deep emotional damage but also forces individuals to question their own self-worth.
On the other hand, for diaspora individuals within the South Asian (Pakistani) context, a different dimension of complexity exists. When girls raised in Western societies look toward Eastern culture, they often experience deep-seated fear and insecurity. Even when a young man is well-educated, well-mannered, and belongs to a respectable family, a lingering suspicion haunts them—wondering if the proposal is genuinely rooted in connection or merely driven by the pursuit of nationality and immigration.
All of these issues reflect how human hearts have grown devoid of inner peace in modern times. We urgently need to shift our focus in relationships away from materialism and suspicion, prioritizing sincerity, trust, and genuine tranquility instead.

Does anyone like the smell of their own sweat? Like, when it's a warm day and your sweat smells kinda like bud even though you don't smoke it

How tf did we fail every silence challenge at Ariana’ shows? London just does not know how to shut up sometimes 😡