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Muslims in Birmingham

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London Sam

@Khaled198016

5 days ago

Hello

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Adnan Aslam

@Adnan10593908

5 days ago

Assalam-0-Alaikum everyone.
Anybody here for marriage..

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Anonymous

5 days ago

Why are most men on here Intrestered in knowing details of a woman's foot size and hight i knoe its a preference but seriously if those are your main things you look for in a partner then its just a crazy world you live in

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Dua M

@StationRise

6 days ago

Anyone know Muslim climbing group for indoor bouldering in birmingham or Oxford

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Anonymous

9 days ago

Brothers and sisters, I could genuinely use some advice on approaching someone for marriage. 🤲

Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

So there’s this girl at my gym who I’ve genuinely started developing feelings for. We see each other almost every day, have a laugh, talk quite a bit, and honestly, we seem to have a lot in common.

I’m Pathan and she’s a revert to Islam. I’m 29 and she’s around 28.

The problem is, I have absolutely no idea how to take things from being friendly at the gym to actually expressing my interest in getting to know her for marriage, while keeping everything respectful and halal.

I feel like she’s been dropping little hints that she might be interested too, but the last time I thought someone liked me, I completely misread the situation and ended up getting hurt and taken advantage of.

So naturally, my brain has decided to overthink absolutely everything this time. 😂😭

I’m a pretty simple guy. I’m not interested in playing games or wasting anyone’s time. If anything, I’d genuinely like to see whether there’s potential for something meaningful, InshaAllah.

Part of me wants to take the chance and ask if she’d be comfortable getting to know each other over a coffee somewhere public, with marriage intentions made clear. The other part worries about making things awkward, especially because we see each other at the gym so often.

My question is, how would you approach this situation in a halal and respectful way?

Sisters, I’d especially appreciate your perspective. How would you feel if a guy you regularly spoke to at the gym approached you with genuine marriage intentions?

And brothers who’ve been in a similar situation, how did you go about it?

I’d genuinely appreciate some advice because apparently I can find the confidence to lift weights but not to ask one woman for coffee. 😭😂

JazakAllah Khair everyone. 🤲❤️

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Anonymous

9 days ago

Would you consider someone with kids?

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Bilal Can

@Bilalcan

11 days ago

Salaam so no anyone in Leicester?

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Kay

@Kay93124548

11 days ago

Salaam

I had a Sister come to my garage today crying about repairs on her car there’s perverted garages out there taking advantage of sisters especially getting robbed by garages for repairs if any sisters need advise help for cars shout me..

I’m happy to guide you to the correct place and help where it’s needed no point having skills if you can’t help your own community..

Peace be on you all

May allah protect and guide us all ameen

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Saleh ABAKAR

@saleh235

12 days ago

Al Salam alikom wa rahmat Allah wa barakath

I would like to marry a young woman living in Birmingham. I am a 28-year-old British man of Chadian descent, born in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia.

Thx everyone 🙏🏽❤️❤️

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GHAZALA RAFIQUE

@GHAZALA41812513

12 days ago

I’m looking for a connection that feels like home — a relationship built on trust, kindness, loyalty, and emotional security.

I admire a man who is mature enough to communicate honestly, respectful enough to value his wife, and responsible enough to build a stable future together.

I don’t expect perfection. I believe in two people choosing each other sincerely, growing together, and making life easier for one another.

My intention is a genuine, committed relationship leading to Nikah, InshaAllah.

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