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I have never understood the urge some people have to insert themselves into every conversation. When two individuals are engaged in a discussion, abruptly jumping in with irrelevant comments, insults, or profanity is not participation,it is poor etiquette.
A difference of opinion is one thing; contributing noise for the sake of being noticed is another. If you have something thoughtful to add, by all means do so. If not, there is no obligation to occupy every space with your presence.
The ability to speak is common. The judgment to know when not to is far rarer.
@shehnaz9
Muslim must understand this.
Allah wants you to be kind, not nice.
Allah wants you to be patient, not passive.
Allah wants you to forgive, not forget.
Allah wants you to be stern, not oppressive.
Allah wants you to be humble, not self-hating.
HADITH OF THE DAY
22 Dhul Hijjah 1447
08 June 2026
Monday يوم الإثنين
The Destructive Nature of Jealousy
Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه reports that Rasúlullãh ﷺ said,
Beware of jealousy because it consumes a person’s good deeds just as fire consumes dry wood.”
[Abu Dawúd]
A Man give the reason why he is still single. In my opinion as i know the law of marriage in Islam when the ummah capable (including the money) so when i heard money get blaming, iam not agree. If a woman is too high maintenance why the man choose her? I believe every person have pair in every way. How about ur opinion?
Pregnancy in women must never be trivialized as merely common or inevitable, nor should women be guilt-tripped into silence with phrases like "be patient" or "you'll be rewarded." It is a profoundly challenging experience, regardless of how many have undergone it before, are experiencing it now, or will in the future. When pregnancy is seen merely as a natural event, its significance and the gratitude owed for it diminish. However, when viewed as a miraculous blessing from Allah, one becomes less likely to minimize the immense physical and emotional strength it demands.
Consider how Allah repeatedly urges us in the Quran to reflect on His creations - the seas, trees, leaves, fruits, and grass. Though these are natural phenomena, we are commanded to observe and ponder them. Why? Because the deeper we look, the more humbled we become, recognizing them not as ordinary occurrences but as miraculous signs of Allah’s power. Likewise, pregnancy should not be reduced to a mere biological process but revered as a divine fragment of Allah’s might. This perspective fosters empathy and appreciation for the nursing mother, reminding us that she is chosen as a vessel for multiplying Allah’s creation.
Women endure profound bodily changes, physical limitations, emotional turbulence, and the daunting task of navigating motherhood. Yet, society often sidelines their struggles, overshadowing their presence with the focus on their children. If a woman dares to express her loneliness or frustration at being unseen, she is often dismissed as "jealous."
As a man, your respect and empathy should deepen when you see a woman not just as the mother of your future child but as a channel through which Allah manifests His power and miracles. It is a role of immense spiritual and physical significance.
To ask her to simply "be okay," to betray her trust during this vulnerable time, to center your own needs, or to expose her to toxic influences such as in-laws or harmful friendships is a grave failing. Instead, men must approach this period with sensitivity, empathy, and unwavering consideration, recognizing the sacred trust bestowed upon women in carrying and nurturing life.
May Allah make us sincere.
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