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What makes someone unforgettable?
a) The way they make you feel
b) The things they say
c) The way they remember you
Mine: A
Some men's logic: If a woman choosed to be unmarried in her late twenties because she didn't actively look for a husband, she is single because she wants to 'cope' with the fact that she could not find someone she vibes with , even if she didn't have too many requirements. And she is terribly unhappy that she failed to find someone mutual. Even if she chose to not marry someone she doesn't like and ruin two people's lives. Did anyone asks her whether she regrets her decision to not marry? There are women who are ten times more successful in life than a man, single and happy. Why should I risk my health to give birth to a child whose dad I don't like? I never wanted kids and I will never do it for someone I don't like. I will have kids with someone is mutual with me. So I will test my luck in finding a man who I vibe with. But my life is good even without mr. Right. My mr.right might not be written for me in lawhul mahfooz. That doesn't mean my lord didn't secure my future.
But if a man in his late or mid thirties chose to be single, it's not because he has too many requirements. Not because he is trying to 'cope' with not finding his dream woman who is suitable for him. Sure , now he is successful in life, attracts women easily . And the woman in late twenties, her options are low . So what? Married women have their share of happiness and sadness, stress. I chose not to bring that stress for someone I'm not attracted to. A right which Islam gave me.
Damn I’m really sick of the way people just ghost you on here, even when things are going amazing, they just leave a big long message and then dissapear on you, like why can’t people just communicate and have a conversation before walking away, how are people ever gonna get married at this rate 🤦🏽♂️
Is jamaa a poison?
Is it less jamaa, as a community? And more a cacophony of online opinions and random thoughts people have planting seeds of discord instead of discourse?
Is there a lack of moderation 'keeping things halal'
In islam, jama'a is a congregation of muslims, often used to describe salaa performed in congregation.. is it disingenuous to use that word?
I find social media, jamaa included is not a true representation of society, but serves to warp opinions and I think it pollutes people.. without it, we wouldn't have the haraam influences and systemic non Islamic ways, normalised by people.
In islam the only time we should disobey oarents is when what they ask of you contradicts deen.. thats parents, who hold the key to our jannah.. so then why do we not reject everything else that contradicts sharia'ah
I find when I use the app, my time is wasted, its unproductive, serves no real tangible benefit and I also don't think this is really a place where a suitable partner for marriage can be found, given the psychological effects of using apps like this
There are so many studies on the effects of social media, in general.. imagine what it does to a muslim, where principles and frameworks and expectations are unilaterally different
Imagine living and surrounding ourselves with decent people, who adhere to the quraan and the sunnah.. in makkah, medinah, and many other Muslim countries, we see this, People visit those places and feel the difference, their hearts always want to go back, the peace it feels in those places
That's fitra, the hearts natural disposition and desire, how Allah intended it to be
I took a massive break from this last year, jamaa, along with anywhere else online where you interact with faceless unaccountability and anonymity, I thought I'd see how different life is without it, and honestly it's very different
In fact, I remember days without the Internet and access from out pockets, people would interact more, forge real relationships with family, mingling and not caring about what others think
Now, that's all everyone thinks about, likes, engagement, instant validity from strangers
People will say 'not me'
Yes you, everyone.. if we posted something and no one clicked like, no on evangel, no one bothered.. how long would we keep posting?
Not long, that's the inherent cause of failure online, that's why MySpace died, no many people used it when other options became available, Facebook added many other functions just to stay relevant too, so let's not kid ourselves into trying to convince ourselves posts and comments are not for likes, attention, validity
Even this post, I didn't put it up as a personal note.. its up for people to see
When I make a post citing haraam, it's for people to see, in the hope that if even one person takes it on boars, then to me its worth it.
Some people post selfie, for attention, some put on makeup, do rheir hair up for acceptance.. otherwise why not just put a pic up when they look the worst?
It's crazy how social media has changed the psychological wellbeing of people, muslims and non muslims
Real society with morals and deen seems to be dying slowly, and social media, acceptance of things that are deemed haraam seem to be on the rise
In the last 10 to 15 years, the world has changed in terms of people and integrity etc, even in the muslim community if we see pictures from those days and compare them with those from today, in some places the difference is polarising especially in terms of how people dress and carry themselves
So yeah, I put this up so people see it, makes them think, I put a link as a starting point too, but I won't be engaging with responses and don't really care if there are likes or not.
If the post is read and causes people to think, then the post served it's purpose
Am I the only one that has noticed videos online attacking muslim women, especially hijabis for wanting to cover up?
It's like a new wave of western feminism and they believe women cover up because they see modesty from the lense of misogyny?
I thought it was the opposite, no?
Please wish me well; tomorrow, God willing, I’ll be getting a full health check-up, including a Pap smear, an HPV vaccine shot, and a gynecological exam.🫣🫣 July day
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On 5 June I met a guy on muzz he was divorced and he has one boy 7 years old, we started talking and he was love bombing in the start then, I thought he is just normal person he made me talk to his son and mother as well after one week we meet and he was fine I liked him, he told me mu son is not happy he don't want me to get married and I said it's okay you can take time obviously he kid and afraid maybe, then he said yeah I will convince him blah blah, then every thing was fine after two weeks the kid told his mom that dad wants to get married and I will not stay with him then, but we were talking this weekend the kid again went to his mom's house and said the same day, that guy my son is not happy about our relationship, I don't want to lose him, my son first then you I said you are being emotional right now, we will figure it out, don't worry, then he's said okay let's talk about it later I said okay, then he started ghosting me he was non answering my call and message, he was deleting them with out looking, after two days of ghosting I said enough, I said bye bye, my concern was just say if you don't want to continue or something, if you want then we can figure things out, he did not say goodbye to me,and guess what I saw his muzz profile it was active and he's changing picture putting new ones, if he really care about son and he doesn't want any relationship then what he's looking for, more girl to make fool, he did not say goodbye, when we meet people for 10 minutes we say goodbye, and we were talking for one month, he was giving me falls hopes
His name was ridvan tuncel, ladies don't fall in his trapp