All things marriage

with all the buzz around the World Cup, we wanted to take a moment to bring back to light South Asian Heritage Month this July 🩷

honouring our South Asian users and Muzz couples - from Pakistan, India, Bangladesh & beyond, to our diaspora South Asian communities worldwide 🌏

If you're on Muzz and you're not checking Jamma, you're missing out. 😂🤭

**** boy

Peace be upon you all 👋🏼😄

A humble awareness message to the Muzz community.

Please don't blindly trust anyone on this app, no matter how genuine they appear. We are all human, and unfortunately, not everyone joins with sincere intentions.

I've used Muzz on and off for almost a year and have interacted with many people. From my personal experience, I found that a large number of users were not genuinely looking for marriage. Many conversations quickly shifted toward inappropriate or sexually motivated discussions, while others seemed more interested in financial or personal gain than building a halal relationship.

I came across someone who insisted on "testing" me by asking me to pay for shopping and dinner, claiming all his previous partners were "gold diggers." He even sent me links to expensive suits costing over PKR 30,000 each. Needless to say, that was an immediate red flag.

The most disturbing experience, however, was with someone who appeared highly religious and convincing. To gain my trust, he opened the Holy Qur'an on a video and swore by Allah about his identity and his intention to marry me. We spoke for nearly two months, mostly through aydio, video calls, and I even saw his home.

Then the excuses began.

First, he claimed his wallet had been stolen, all his ATM cards were blocked, and he urgently needed money for medicine because he was hospitalized with angina. Feeling empathy, I helped him.

After that, every promise to return the money came with another dramatic story: a cousin murdered, an uncle's heart attack, a fatal car accident leading to police custody, and finally, that he himself had been shot and hospitalized. It felt like a never-ending fictional movie script.

The financial loss was not the biggest issue. The real loss was realizing that someone Belongs to Pukhtun ( Pathan ) tribe could misuse the Holy Qur'an and religion to manipulate another person's trust. That was deeply disappointing.

I'm sharing this not to attack any individual, ethnicity, or community, but to remind everyone:

• -Verify actions, not just words.
• -Never let emotional stories override your judgment.
• -Avoid sending money to someone you've on

Here's a polished, respectful, and impactful version you can post to the Muzz community. It raises awareness without making sweeping claims about any group of people.

*A humble awareness message to the Muzz community.

Please don't blindly trust anyone on this app, no matter how genuine they appear. We are all human, and unfortunately, not everyone joins with sincere intentions.

I've used Muzz on and off for almost a year and have interacted with many people. From my personal experience, I found that a large number of users were not genuinely looking for marriage. Many conversations quickly shifted toward inappropriate or sexually motivated discussions, while others seemed more interested in financial or personal gain than building a halal relationship.

I came across someone who insisted on "testing" me by asking me to pay for shopping and dinner, claiming all his previous partners were "gold diggers." He even sent me links to expensive suits costing over PKR 30,000 each. Needless to say, that was an immediate red flag.

The most disturbing experience, however, was with someone who appeared highly religious and convincing. To gain my trust, he opened the Holy Qur'an on a video call and swore by Allah about his identity and his intention to marry me. We spoke for nearly two months, mostly through video calls, and I even saw his home.

Then the excuses began.

First, he claimed his wallet had been stolen, all his ATM cards were blocked, and he urgently needed money for medicine because he was hospitalized with angina. Feeling empathy, I helped him.

After that, every promise to return the money came with another dramatic story: a cousin murdered, an uncle's heart attack, a fatal car accident leading to police custody, and finally, that he himself had been shot and hospitalized. It felt like a never-ending fictional movie script.

The financial loss was not the biggest issue. The real loss was realizing that someone could misuse the Holy Qur'an and religion to manipulate another person's trust. That was deeply disappointing.

I'm sharing this not to attack any individual, ethnicity, or community, but to remind everyone:

Verify actions, not just words.

• -Never let emotional stories override your judgment.

• -Avoid sending money to someone you've only met online, regardless of the excuse.
• -Don't mistake religious language or oaths for proof of character.
• -Genuine people will respect your boundaries and never pressure you financially or emotionally.

Marriage platforms can help people find sincere partners, but they can also attract manipulators. Stay kind, but stay cautious.

May Allah protect everyone from deception, grant us righteous spouses, and guide us to make wise decisions. Ameen.

This version keeps the focus on awareness, avoids defamatory language, and is more likely to be well received by the community while still conveying your experience.
ly met online, regardless of the excuse.

• -Don't mistake religious language or oaths for proof of character.
• -Genuine people will respect your boundaries and never pressure you financially or emotionally.

Marriage platforms can help people find sincere partners, but they can also attract manipulators. Stay kind, but stay cautious.

May Allah protect everyone from deception, grant us righteous spouses, and guide us to make wise decisions. Ameen.

This is such a weird dating app, and the people on it are even weirder. I joined out of curiosity, and I honestly wish I never did.

i really need a wife i'm lost...

Hy