All things marriage

Do you believe kindness is more attractive than physical beauty?

As a 42 year old woman I’ve kind of been skeptical when it comes to younger guys.. I think 2/3 years younger is ok.

As guys around my age look older than my father, sorry guys but you look like grandfathers.

As I look younger than my age I think couple of years is ok.

But I have always had a lot of younger guys like me around 33/34. Which I think is too young, and never give them a chance, as I think they’re just going to waste my time.

I would also like some opinions on this what you think or have experienced..

My best friend is 40 now and she got married last year to a guy who’s 8 years younger than her. They also lived together a few years before marrying each other as she is a white girl and him an Indian. She’s told me to be more open with the age limit.

What ages are you open to?

This is the ultimate goal. 🤍

You can't force people to choose you👀🙂

Me,
Refuse to be set up by my parents, yet incompetent to find a partner on my own.
Like yeah🙃

I hope one day you realise you were never difficult to love.

You were just asking the wrong people to understand you. ❤️

Are there any non-Muslim or revert men here who are serious about getting married? 😁

Bro to Sis 🫶❤️

If your family is pressuring you to bring a husband home, please don't let that pressure push you into bringing the wrong man home.

Marriage is not a competition.
It is not an award for turning 25, 30, or 35.
It is not proof that your life is successful.

The same people rushing you today may not be there to wipe your tears tomorrow if the marriage becomes a source of pain.

Don't marry because your mates are posting wedding photos.
Don't marry because your brother/aunties keep asking, "When are we eating rice?"
Don't marry because people are beginning to call you "old."

Marry because you have found peace, compatibility, respect, and someone who fears Allah.

And most importantly, trust Allah's timing.

A delayed marriage is not a denied marriage.
What Allah has written for you cannot miss you, and what misses you was never meant for you.

Never rush ahead of Allah's plan because of people's noise. The One who created you knows the right person, the right place, and the right time.

Being single for a few more years is better than being trapped in years of regret.

Your wedding lasts one day.
Your marriage may last a lifetime.

Trust Allah.@
Trust the process.
Trust His timing.

May Allah write beautiful spouses and beautiful destinies for every sincere soul waiting patiently. 🤲

amen☺️✨❤️

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