All things marriage

just wanna talk about some thoughts in my mind out loud ..
As a bipolar person and someone who's emotionally hypersensitive .. I'm between being with someone who really care about me and share with me the love that I deserve or being alone better than getting hurt .. I had some experiences serious one at least from my side but 2 of them ended up by cheating on me .. which made me aggressively believe in actions more than words .. but lately I feel desperately need emotions because that's what makes me feel alive and better .. as a person who lived so many hard times I think I deserve to be loved just once .. like the least simple treatment for someone you love .. I got no female friends for while .. not talking to anyone or meeting any new ones .. hoping that Allah will lead that perfect match for me .. not waiting nor searching but wishing and praying ..

Would you sign a Prenup?

If you had to choose only one...
A wealthy man with very little time for you.
OR
An average earner who genuinely loves, respects, and supports you.
Which one would you choose, and why?

I want a man who is genuinely obsessed with me. The moment someone starts showing a lack of interest, takes forever to reply, or ghosts me, my feelings disappear almost instantly. I lose interest just as quickly.
It’s probably one of the reasons I’m still single. The other? I love myself far too much to settle or make the wrong lifelong decision just for the sake of getting married .

Hi

Hello

When you wake up in the morning, what's the first thing you look at or do? 😂👇🏾
🤳🏾 Check my phone
🤲🏾 Pray Fajr
💥 Morning adhkar
🌄 Look out the window
🚿 Brush my teeth
💧 Drink water
🛏️ Go back to sleep 😂
☕ Make tea/coffee
🎧 Listen to music
📖 Read the Qur'an
Which one is you? Or add yours below. 👇🏾😄

What are the parameters on which one should judge other person?

One should know the purpose of marriage and the rights of the their spouse before getting married. Marriage is not just about having fun and all, it is a sheer responsibility in which your actions, your thoughts and your lifestyle affect the other person physically, mentally and spiritually.

Most of the people go for the looks and wealth but the thing that matter the most is the deen of other person, rest is secondary. You must look first for the mindset of the other person, what are the principles they live their life on, do they really prefer their creator in every aspect of their lives or are they just naam ky musalman? To what extent they have the religious knowledge or what do they think about this life given to us, are they consider this life mere an entertainment or do they really know what Allah demands us as Muslims.

And most importantly do they read Quran, seerah, islamic literature/lectures and try to become a better muslim everyday or not? Kiun kh jo insan Allah ky qareeb ni hai us mn itni pukh'tagi ni hai kh zindgi ky bki mamlaat main insaaf, ehsaas aur muhabbat sy chl sky. Jiska creator hi uski priority ni hai uski zindgi mn ap kahan stand kr gy?

I also believe marriage is the foundation to raise a strong generation in which both spouses must be equally involved. Maa agr tiktok sy ni nikl rhi hogi aur baap ki priority sirf paisa kamana hoga toh aulad ki parwareish phir youtube aur social apps hi krin gi. So think bigger befor choosing a person. You're not just choosing a person for yourself, you're also choosing a parent for your kids.

Muzz

Day may 10 or 12 still struggling for the same thing! I may find the good job !! Because this app is not helpful too find a partner!! I have left the hope asides!!