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⁨⁩ Maybe reading all this will make your life easier in some difficult situations, or maybe there are some questions that have been bothering you for a long time could be answered through them ........

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I want to make one thing clear, which is a question that arises in the mind of every man or woman about today's women independency or masculine energy.......

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1400 years ago, during the blessed era of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), women were independent, did business, and established themselves in many professions with great distinction. And she made her own decisions, expressed her own happiness, revealed her own preferences.

After that, a time came when women's education was limited. They started imposing restrictions on them, saying, "You can't go far, you can't study. And those people would give them a little education and marry them off as soon as possible, and that was what they were taught.

Then there was a period in which women were told that you couldn't speak, you couldn't express your pain, you couldn't be against the next person. You can't express your point of view. You have to sacrifice everything. Your mental health. You have to sacrifice your mental things. Your emotions are sacrificed.
Then came a time when women sacrificed themselves, their emotions, their physical health, everything about themselves, and made it a routine, accepting it as something basic that had to be done. So men, considering them weak, started trying to gain control over them, started ruling over them, started oppressing them. Although they knew that Allah was watching, their fearlessness had disappeared from within them. Seeing the woman's weakness, they began to try to rape her, either unintentionally or intentionally. They made her do everything she probably didn't want to do, but she was forced to because she had been taught that you have to do it, And you have to do it, you have no other choice.

Then came a time when women, having lost their patience with the injustice done to them, started raising their voices against it and started expressing their pain, and the man's ego was hurt. He believed in his ego and the fact that his dominance over a woman was in his favor, even though it was not the case. A man has no right to dominate or control her .It is wrong to make a woman do everything she doesn't want, to ignore her likes and dislikes and to impose only your own preferences. And when the man saw that the woman he considered weak had now started asking questions, or had she started answering him, "I don't want this," or had she started refusing? So he started to beat her up, he was made a victim of injustice, he started to do many things to her which she could not bear.
And she again gave up her rights to him and she again endured things like an oppressed person due to her weakness.

Then a time came when the woman saw that by earning money, a person, whether a man or a woman, gains respect and freedom, so she started running after these things. And when she succeeded in doing these things, she realized that in fact, freedom was reserved for her in these very things. In the eyes of men, she was very weak. If she didn't do all these things,
And then she set herself after success, saying, "I have to be successful, I have to get a job, I have to do business, and when I earn money myself, then I will be able to buy respect and freedom."But the men of this time are unable to tolerate this. They are saying, "How can it be that a woman can surpass them on an equal footing with us? If we, as men, cannot do it, how can she do it?
NOTE:"I'M not talking about all men here, and I'm not talking about all women here either. I'm just talking about what I've observed by thinking and looking at society, what's happening in the world. I'm talking about it in the recording after seeing all of them.

Now, in short, I have written this all this long and there is only one reason for explaining it, and that is why I want to explain why a woman wants to become a well-settled servant or she herself wants to become independent. Or why is she demanding a well Settled man? Today's woman has seen her mother survive, endure pain, listen to the family, listen to the in-laws, listen to the neighborhood but lost herself. And she doesn't want to repeat all this in her life, and she doesn't want to forget all this. She doesn't want to see the life she saw of her mother, her aunt, or any of her relatives' women. They don't want all this to happen to her, so she is walking around with her aversion, keeping her mind off things, suppressing her feelings, and pretending to be a mature, sensible man .She is making her decisions from a man's perspective.

NOTE : Another very important thing that has happened is that men feel that if a woman becomes independent or a successful woman, she will not need him, meaning that a woman will not need her man, even though It's not like a woman don't needs a man's support, a man's protection, to stand by a man in every place, every second. If a woman is in the form of your sister, she would want my brother to stand by me, take me, bring me, support me everywhere, not control me. If a woman is in the form of your daughter, then she also needs her father's shadow, she needs his protection, she needs his support, she wants her father to be with her everywhere .If a woman is in the form of your wife, she wants my husband to be with me, stand with me, support me, be available to me everywhere.I'm talking about those women who don't really want to use success in the wrong way, but rather, Rather, she wants to follow the right path. So if a woman really wants to follow the right path and succeed, then she asks for a man's protection. She will not say, "Brother, don't come with me, I will go alone." Women need a man's protection every second. They can't do without him in such a cruel world. She wants to be independent and dependent on the right man who doesn't control her and doesn't consider her dependent as her weakness or use it against her will.....

I hope you understands my explanations .......😊😊My post was not motivated by any hatred towards any man or woman, and I was simply asking why there is no good answer to a question that is arising in the minds of men and women in many places. And it's not that I'm 100 percent right, it was my own observation that I told you guys. Not every person has the same perspective on seeing something, and I don't think anyone has a bad opinion of any of my posts.I apologize if you feel that way.

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