All things marriage

How would it be for a 27-year-old girl to marry a 44-year-old man?
I desperately need this important advice from you all. If you have any experience, hearsay, or anything beneficial about this, please share it. Will wait.

What to do what not to do scooby doooo……
Just free time mind goes here and there…
Have a blessed day…..

"The saddest tears are the ones that never fall."

i have question!!
any lady is for serious relation
or everyone here for timepass??

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Allahu Akbar ☝️

𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒂𝒏𝒕, 𝑺𝒉𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝒕𝒆𝒎𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒈𝒖𝒚. 𝑰𝒎 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕, 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆, 𝑳𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒌𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆. 𝑰 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒊𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒂𝒏. 𝑰 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒈𝒐 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝒛𝒐𝒏𝒆 & 𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒗𝒐𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒕'𝒔 𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒓𝒚. 𝑯𝒆’𝒍𝒍 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒊𝒏 𝒅𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒔. 𝑯𝒆’𝒍𝒍 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒆 𝒃𝒚 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒎𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝑰'𝒅 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒚 𝒎𝒚 𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆☺️

Bismillah
As salamu alaikum
Okay. A small situation I want to explain before asking for your thoughts.

I am someone who believes that a woman has a right to decide whether they want to be housewife or working outside. That’s their right. I mostly lean to prefer to marry someone who works outside and usually reject someone if they want to be a housewife. My reasoning behind it is that I support my wife having some income that in case the Mehr or if I am broke and she becomes a widow, she has a sustainable income to not rely on me. Furthermore, I put myself to pay the house bills and do all the work as I am obligated to deliver and pay the house financial stuff, and have my future wife save her income for herself.

After being called by two people that this is the most stupidish idea they ever heard. I also get threatening word that this logic gets me nowhere on marriage.

What is your thoughts about this?

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There comes a point when it is okay to stop. When you have set aside your ego, given space, reflected on your own mistakes, apologized, worked on yourself, and sincerely fought for the relationship, yet the other person still chooses to focus only on your flaws instead of appreciating your efforts and the good in you. At that point, it is okay to let go and trust that Allah has a better plan. This applies equally to both women and men.