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Guys, what makes you stop replying to a woman or man you’re interested in? Genuinely asking because mine just disappeared after we’ve been talking for 6 months, just curious if he die or smthg? 😐 anyways he’s Indian living in Australia. Is the guy from India Australia are red flag? Lol its been 4 days
So two days a go one girl accepted my compliment and liked me..and yesterday I send a message even though there was no any reply for my compliment..and yesterday full day I waited for a reply but she didn’t even seen my message..today out of nowhere she seen my message but still no reply..looks like she is going to ghost me..feel little 😢
One genuine connection 👀 is worth more than a thousand matches.😶
The Intentional Muslim's Guide: Rules to Protect Your Peace on Matchmaking Apps
1. Keep the Conversation on the App Initially
Do not rush to exchange phone numbers. Keep all conversations on the app until you have established a genuine connection, verified their serious intentions, or successfully met in person. Your WhatsApp is a personal space; guard it.
2. Guard Your Heart Against "Love Bombing"
Actions speak louder than text messages. Do not allow yourself to become too emotionally invested, overly intimate, or swayed by a match showering you with sweet names and grand promises before you have met them in person. Screen romance is just an illusion until real-life effort proves otherwise.
3. Weaponize Your Bio to Filter the Unserious
Protect your peace of mind by being unapologetically clear in your profile. State exactly what you are looking for and explicitly list the dealbreakers you will not compromise on. A highly intentional bio acts as your first line of defense against people who do not know what they want.
4. Avoid Premature Family Introductions
Keep your family and core circle out of the talking stage. Do not invite a match to family gatherings or involve your loved ones until absolute, mutual commitment is established and a clear timeline for Nikkah is set.
5. Demand a Video Call Before the First Date
Before you travel across town, buy a gift, or invest heavy effort into a physical date, initiate a video call. This ensures they are exactly who their pictures claim to be and helps you gauge if your communication actually flows naturally outside of texting.
6. Set a Strict Timeline for Meeting
Do not entertain endless pen-pal relationships. If a match is constantly giving excuses, avoiding phone calls, or delaying a physical meeting after a reasonable amount of time, withdraw your energy. Serious people make time; unserious people make excuses.
7. Watch for Consistency Over Grand Gestures
A person who is truly ready for marriage will show up for you with calm, steady consistency. Beware of people who bring a chaotic rush of energy, talk about marriage on day one, and then suddenly become "too busy." Pure love is peaceful and consistent, never confusing.
🤲🏾 A Short Prayer for Every Intentional Seeker:
May Allah protect our hearts from those who are only passing through, and shield us from attachments that lead to confusion and heartbreak.
May He guide our steps, ease our affairs, and ultimately bless us with righteous spouses who will be the absolute coolness of our eyes and a source of boundless peace in this Dunya and the Aakhirah. Aameen.