All things marriage

Salam alikom
They you feel it is possible to meet someone here?
If not what other option?
Else I will not ask why you are here.

@ibnarab I saw you post on obedience…

“Men are qawwamun (maintainers/protectors/supporters) over women because Allah has given some more than others and because they spend of their wealth…” (4:34)

The verse describes men as qawwamun due to responsibility and financial support. It does not explicitly state: “A wife must obey her husband in all lawful matters, A husband’s commands are binding, or A husband has authority to orders that must be followed.”

But there is no verse that says “Obey your husband.”
“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.” (2:187). This is a relationship of mutual support, not a command hierarchy. The word ma’ruf (good and fair) regarding marriage suggests mutual fairness than authority.

The Quran commands obedience to:

1. Allah
2. His Messenger

-3:32
-4:59
-24:52

The next one was a hadith, not Quran.

The Quran says:

“Be grateful to Me and to your parents.” (31:14)

“If you are grateful, I will surely increase you.” (14:7)

What the Quran does NOT say:

A woman must thank her husband or Allah will not look at her nor is there a verse singling out wives for gratitude toward husbands. If gratitude is required, it would logically apply to both spouses, because the Quran repeatedly emphasizes mutual kindness and good treatment.

This point:

“And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (30:21)

This verse is:

Addressed to both spouses, Tranquility is mutual, Affection is mutual and Mercy is mutual.

This verse does not say:

“The wife alone must provide tranquility.”
Or
“The husband alone provides tranquility.”

If someone uses this verse to place an obligation solely on women, that is not what the verse says. The Quran presents marriage as a partnership of affection between both spouses. The verse is correctly said by using it as a unity between a husband and his wife not a one-sided duty of the wife.

“And women have rights similar to those against them according to what is reasonable (ma’ruf).” (2:228)

This verse establishes that Women have:
-Rights
-Responsibilities

Men have:
-Rights
-Responsibilities

The similar rights.

“Live with them in kindness.” (4:19)
“Do not forget graciousness between yourselves.” (2:237)
“No soul is burdened beyond its capacity.” (2:286)

This verse cuts against any interpretation that makes responsibilities entirely one-sided. The Quran repeatedly emphasizes balance, fairness, and mutual obligations. This point is supported by the Quran instead of your wording “she must not demand what he cannot bear”

The Quran establishes marriage on mutual kindness, mercy, consultation, and reciprocal rights. While 4:34 gives men responsibility as providers and maintainers, the Quran nowhere commands wives to obey husbands in the same way it commands obedience to Allah and His Messenger. Verses such as 2:187, 2:228, 4:19, and 30:21. Therefore, several claims in the post rely on hadith and later interpretations than explicit commands.

key verses relevant to this discussion are:
-2:187 (clothing for one another)
-2:228 (rights and responsibilities)
-4:19 (live together in kindness)
-30:21 (love, mercy, tranquility)
-42:38 (mutual consultation as a general principle)
-9:71 (“The believing men and believing women are allies of one another”)

Reason for late sleeping??

✨🤍☺️hi is here any serious person

My name is Sadik, and I am a 23-year-old Moroccan man currently living in Rabat, the capital of Morocco. I am working on improving my English and building meaningful human connections based on respect and cultural exchange. I am particularly interested in meeting a woman living in Europe with the intention of building a serious relationship that may eventually lead to marriage. I am currently single.
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Hi

Why is cheating only entitled to men I have seen many women who cheat

So how many girls shift to Whatsapp and get blocked by the guy Lying that
I deleted the app because too many msgs and i wanna talk to you only!

Reason being they don't want proof of their False stuff Reported to muzz
But i guess all of us girls must report their GHOST IDs with screenshots from WhatsApp.
You know na we can complain about outside muzz interaction with proof?

Imagine being so useless and pathetic that you have to ask a woman for money.