All things marriage

Am looking for M'y lovely girl ＼(^_^)／

Sad Reality
Everyone here wants a well-established man . One whos earning in lacks and have everything in place . Yet nobody wants a man thats trying its best for his future and currently in hustling phase

If I ever accept polygamy, that means:

1. I don’t really deeply care about that man. He’s probably useful to me for something, which is why I’m sticking around.
2. I’m sick of him and glad he goes elsewhere for a while.
3. Or Im unwell or can’t have children so I’m setting him free while I figure out what to do.

I just cannot see a world where I can happily share a man I love and want. I feel like he’s soiled goods if he’s touched and been with other people. Like I cannot accept him back into my arms if he was just with another chick the night before. I’ll probably smell her on him or my mind will just conjure up all kinds of images. It’s so ewww 🤮

Besides, he won’t come to a peaceful household after that because I’m not happy or peaceful anymore. Truly a recipe for a disaster

Kudos to those sisters that live it.

Oh and I’ve seen how polygamy can damage the children. At least in my community. I’ve talked to grown men here that know they have siblings that they never talked to or even have relationship with their fathers because of what happened to their moms.

Is affectionate friendship common on this app?

Stop judging people. You don't know if they were the victim or the fighter who tried till the last breath to save the marriage. Not every man is wrong. Not every woman is wrong. Some people are just pure-hearted, loyal, caring, and full of love... but still end up broken. You don't know what happened behind closed doors. You don't know their pain. Only Allah knows the full story. So before you call someone "psycho" or "narcissist", remember: You're not God to judge anyone. A broken person needs understanding and respect, not hate. Show empathy, not judgment.

Islamically speaking you don’t need to register your marriage with the state

You can have the nikkah (Islamic marriage ceremony) without having the legal ceremony 🫡

0 reason for a man to be registering his marriage with the government in the west

“But we need it to be official”

No, you don’t

Being married in the eyes of Allah is enough

Witnesses, wali, mahr. Done.

Make a separate app for average looking people so we averages don't have to compete with supermodels @muzz @shaz

Alone!

A special greeting to my homeland, Algeria🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿

"If one day we accidentally meet in the courtyard of the Kaaba, would you recognize me?"

I've tried to write a very beautiful and sweet sentence to end our conversation. It might be our last conversation if we really do part tonight.

but how could the man be so cruel, replying with sentences that hurt my heart when I read line by line. It should have finished until the sentence "Kaaba courtyard"..... (haven't I tried to insert a prayer here, hoping for a miracle to come there). I think the sentence "Kaaba courtyard" if I read it again and again is very beautiful for me to reflect on.

I appreciate how present he is. the way he presents I think our introduction is very sweet.

السلام عليكم Marysm hi how are you. Yes إنْ شاءَ اللهُ I want to marry a Quran girl. Because you look nice lady I want to get to know you better إنْ شاءَ اللهُ I like you because you read Quran good 😊