All things marriage

👫 Long distance — worth it or not?
A) Never, too hard
B) Yes, if he's the right one
C) Only if there's an end date

How do you do my fellow clearance stock? 🫪

❤️ What matters more?
A) Physical attraction
B) Emotional connection
C) Financial stability

📏 Does height really matter in a relationship?
A) Yes, it's a dealbreaker
B) No, personality wins
C) Only a little

💸 Who should pay on the first date?
A) The guy, always
B) Split it 50/50
C) Whoever asked out

What age is the best age get married

"My Lord, do not leave me alone [with no heir], while you are the best of inheritors."

BREAKING NEWS 🥲

I finally went on a date with someone here on Jammaa. SubhanAllah, she is quite popular on here. I won’t share her name out of respect for her privacy.

I respectfully chose not to move forward because I need at least 30% attraction to keep my promise of marriage, forever.

Please share your honest opinion. what should I do to find a better match?

END OF THE STORY

Life isn't all roses
There are days when you fall flat on your face, and days when you hold your head high.
But a real man isn't the one who never falls; a real man is the one who, if he falls, gets up on his own and doesn't beg from anyone.
I believe in one thing
Work hard, be patient, pray, and leave the rest to God
Provision will come, and so will protection, and a good wife
But everything in its own time, not when you're in a hurry.

The biggest lesson life has taught me

Don't chase after someone who runs away from you, and don't cling to someone who lets you go."

Your dignity comes before your heart.

And whoever wants you will come to you knowing your worth, not when you're begging them.

I don't know how to be a backup plan, or "keep him for when you need him."

Either I'm a priority, or don't make promises to me in the first place.