All things marriage

Serious question: What qualities do you think are most important in a woman when considering her for marriage? Don’t hold back..I genuinely want to hear your honest opinions.

THE RESUME OF A WOMAN

• -<CUSTOM_BOLD>Blood</CUSTOM_BOLD>: Lost monthly. No PTO.
• -<CUSTOM_BOLD>Calcium</CUSTOM_BOLD>: Donated to tiny humans.
• -<CUSTOM_BOLD>Sleep</CUSTOM_BOLD>: Redistributed to deadlines, kids, and overthinking at 3am.
• -<CUSTOM_BOLD>Dreams</CUSTOM_BOLD>: Put on layaway for “later.”

HR note: Still called "emotional" while running entire households, careers, and group chats.

Here’s what they don’t put on the resume:
The silent trauma loops, the people-pleasing, the “I’m fine” that’s been running for 20 years.

As a Creative Trauma Cleansing Practitioner, I don’t do bandaids.
LADIES: YOU’RE NOT “TOO MUCH.” YOU’RE UNDER-CLEARED.

You’ve lost blood. Calcium. Sleep. Boundaries.
And somehow still get told to “calm down.”

Cute.

What you actually need isn’t another pep talk.
It’s a full creative trauma cleanse.

I work with women who are done carrying generational weight in their body.
We clear it. We rewire it. We get you back.

High-level healing for high-level women.
If this hit you, it’s because you’re ready.
Few ask: "Why does my body never feel safe enough to rest?"

I've spent 21+ years teaching people to reconnect with what matters. Today, I also help people understand how unresolved stress quietly shapes their daily lives.

Because healing isn't just about surviving another day.

It's about waking up with enough presence to live it.

Question for you: When was the last time you woke up feeling genuinely rested—not just awake?

DM presence if this resonates 💯💫❤️💛

Title: Looking for a Serious Relationship for Marriage and Stability 💍Hello everyone,My name is Omar. I am a 27-year-old single man, currently living in Aleppo, Syria.After trying various dating apps that are unfortunately full of fake profiles and unserious people, I decided to write this post with complete honesty and transparency. I want to cut to the chase and find a real life partner who is looking for stability and building a family.A Little About Me:My Goal: I am looking for a clear, direct, and respectful relationship that starts with getting to know each other and leads to official marriage. No games or time-wasting.Flexibility & Travel: I am completely open to traveling, relocating, and living in any other country if it serves our shared future.My Personality: I am a responsible man who values family stability. I truly believe that honesty and openness are the foundation of any successful home.Who I Am Looking For:A mature, respectful, and conscious woman—whether she is from Syria, an Arab country, or any foreign country. For me, character, morals, and seriousness matter much more than nationality.Someone who is genuinely looking for a man who will respect and protect her, and who is also tired of casual relationships.If you share the same goals and are interested in a respectful, meaningful conversation, I would be more than happy to have you send me a private message so we can speak openly.I wish everyone the best of luck in finding their right partner.

I am Nabil, a young man from Casablanca 🇲🇦, serious and trustworthy, who enjoys sharing warm and memorable moments while fully enjoying life.

If you could travel to two places, where would you go, and why?

Hey

sorry this glass red 😊

As an Indian American (born and raised in America) it’s the realization that I feel like a lot of Pakistanis (in general not specific people) as a whole think they’re better than Indian Muslims.

Wallahi I’m not trying to create fitnah, but some of these Pakistanis genuinely think Indians are all Hindus- it’s strange. Like they all think they’re the best looking people, and shocked when they realize we speak Urdu as well ( Urdu is originally from Lucknow).

In any case these are just some shower thoughts.

Maybe this is just frustration from the fact that I’m actively being ghosted by a Pakistani girl on this app, and it’s frustrating me because I genuinely found her attractive (not to say that I haven’t matched with Pakistanis in the past and they haven’t been attracted to me- which they have)

In any case, as they say, Pakistani for life my cousin is my wife. 😭

Also I’m just joking on this post, I have family that is Pakistani, we’re all desi here. Loll

I am honestly super worried and scared of marrying the wrong person.

The fear of my future partner not reciprocating love kills me everyday. I really can’t with these gender wars either. I don’t really understand why people, regardless of their gender, accept advise and take accountability for their deeds. Its scary to see so many women turn masculine.

Everything is scary. Loyalty, Respect and calmness is being expected but seldom being shown by some women of these days. The prophet (saw) asked the ummah to marry the woman that brings peace to the heart, and really thats what I am seeking too. But where is such kind of a woman? Me being in a western country makes it even worse as to how I would approach women that are upon their deen.
My type of a woman would run far away with just the sound of a man, So how am I supposed to even begin to initiate marriage talks? Local Masjid? Yea, Didn’t work. All of em are arabs who want to marry only from their ethnicity and thats their preference.

And the amount of women with serious mental health disorders makes it that times more difficult to trust anyone. Don’t get me wrong, I would gladly suffer for what I love, But why should my future children get affected? But they mask it so well, That it stays unnoticed for months. Who can I trust at this point?

The women I meet say they want love (as they should) , What about me? Am I not human? Am I a robot? Where is that love for me? It hurts every damn bit the same as it would for you. The lack of selflessness is just showing. I grew up watching how my parents and relatives showed love to each other, Is it possible to even expect that kind of love in the society that we live in today?

And fairly, Expecting someone to not have a physical past is something wrong? Then am I a donkey to have waited 27 years to be with my soulmate??? The double standards are grilling me upside down.

I hit the gym like a madman nowadays, Thats the only source of relief I get apart from constant dhikr and nafl salahs. It honestly is affecting me, in all sorts of ways.

I am sorry if I hurt anyone’s feelings or if it reminded of any trauma that any of y’all have been through. I was at a low place and I needed this since a long time.

But I still have hopes, Allah swt will never leave his servant without guidance and help. Allah swt’s help is always near. All I can really do now is have tawakkul and hope my soulmate will soon be revealed to me.

Every market has it days and everyday has it's market. 💡