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I don't know why so many men cheat on their partners 😿 I once had trust issues because of my ex-husband.. I have 2 children and now I'm thinking of marrying someone from another country.. has anyone else experienced something similar?

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Hi I am Fazli Rabbani from Pakistan Peshawar

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This platform (Muzz) app involves less matchmaking and more fraud. Women here start conversations but ask for money after a few days—sometimes for food or drinks, other times using a birthday as an excuse—before disappearing. There is a profile named 'Hezal Rajpoot'; she shared her contact number and chatted with me for a few days. As soon as I became serious, she mentioned a birthday gift and demanded money for it. The moment I transferred the funds to her bank account, she unmatched me on Muzz and blocked me on WhatsApp within a few hours. She has since deleted the chat from that day, but I still have the rest of the conversation, along with her account number, real name, and address—details I had saved before she deleted them.

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Where is my life partner ??
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Why does Muzz force women to accept compliments?
I honestly don't understand this feature on Muzz.

If someone sends me a compliment or an opening message, why can't I simply decline it? Why am I being forced to match with that person first, then send a message, and only after that unmatch? That makes absolutely no sense to me.

What's even more frustrating is that when I click "Decline the compliment," the app literally freezes and pops up a message telling me not to ghost the person.
But... I'm not ghosting anyone. We never matched in the first place. Why should I be forced into a conversation just to reject someone? That's not ghosting ! that's simply choosing not to engage.

The whole point of sending a compliment is that the other person is taking a chance. Sometimes the answer is yes, sometimes it's no. Both should be accepted. But forcing me to interact with someone I already know I'm not interested in completely takes away my choice.

As women, we're already expected to be "nice" all the time. We worry about hurting people's feelings, rejecting them too harshly, or being judged for saying no. We deal with enough of that in real life. I didn't expect to find the same thing on a Muslim marriage app.

What disappoints me even more is that Islam actually gives women the right to choose. A woman is not forced to accept a proposal, continue a conversation, or explain why she isn't interested. Her answer can simply be "no," and that should be enough. Our religion teaches respect, modesty, and consent. It doesn't teach us to pressure people into conversations they never wanted.

This isn't me saying men shouldn't send compliments. They absolutely should if they want to. But women should have the exact same freedom to decline them without being forced into a match first.

I already emailed Muzz about this because I genuinely think it's a design flaw. But maybe one email isn't enough. Maybe this is something that needs a petition from the women (or maybe men in the same situation) on this app who are also bothered by this feature. If enough of us speak up, maybe they'll finally realize that respecting boundaries should be part of the user experience too.

Maybe I'm the only one bothered by this, but I have a feeling I'm not. A simple "Decline" button that actually works would solve everything. No fake match. No forced conversation. Just mutual respect.

Respecting someone's choice also means respecting their decision not to engage. It really should be that simple.